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Should i dump him?

there's this guy... he moved here to be with me. we started dating and just hung out today for the first time. but 2 days ago i kissed someone else and they really like me and I have feelings for him to.. but I'm not sure i don't wanna be a ______ or anything but i know kissing him was wrong i just couldn't help myself..? i like him more then my boyfriend. so im pretty sure that i need to dump my boyfriend, but it'd hurt him so much. i wouldn't know what to say!

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Break up with him. Like seriously. You didn't care about how his feelings and how he would feel when you kissed the other guy, why care now trying to break up with him. That's basically the way I see it. I hope he takes it well.

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Dump him. He doesn't deserve to be cheated and lied upon like this. He should dump YOU like a hot potato. This isn't even supposed to be funny and it isn't.. ahem! To pretend that you care about hurting him when you knowingly did all of that to him.

THIS is the reason, there's a bunch of guys going the wrong way. Girls like you. Breaking someone's heart reverberates into history. And to give into an impulse to make yourself feel better at the cost of losing someone that way. It's a shame. Beauty and all it's glory mean NOTHING paired with an ugly personality. Develop your principles and values and get respected and looked upon.

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I didn't plan to kiss the other guy it just happened. This is the first time something like This has ever happened so don't say girls like me.
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You've no idea how this impacts your relationship, do you? If EVERYONE just kissed everyone else because they felt like it, imagine...... You don't justify such act by saying it's your "first time".
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Yeah, you should let him go... Though he may have a broken heart after, it's better that he goes now, now that he's been cheated on...

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DUMP HIM! simply say "look, i like you but i just dont think we should date right now. I hung out with another guy..and i kissed him. im really sorry this had to happen. and i do care about you and your feelings but this just isnt working for me" trust me your not a ______! :)

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This world needs less unfaithful and confused girls like you, I feel bad for the poor guy that moves away from alot to be with you and this happens, I wish him luck and a good life, yes you should break up with him, he deserves better.

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Two choices here. One, dump him because he deserves better than you, or two, tell him and have him dump you because he knows he deserves better than you.

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