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What to do when your husband spends more time in the gym then he does with you or sleeping

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You should go to the gym with him,workout together

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The importance of communication in a marriage, or indeed in any relationship, cannot be overstressed. You have to sit down with him and talk to him about it. It might be that he hasn't even noticed that he spends most of his time away. Make him understand that you need him at home too, but don't make him feel like you are being controlling.

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Thank u I'm just worried he become to muscular
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make plans for you and I
him more in the day for him to spend time with you

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You should try discussing this with him and let him know how you feel. If he cares then he will realize what he's doing and try to spend more time with you. He may just not realize that he's upsetting you. Maybe try spending some more time with him and going out more often? :)

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Thank you, he notice he spends more time there he took me out on a date today and even said I spend more time at the gym then I sleep Im worried he's becoming to muscular
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This doesn't sound like its going to end well for you. I've found in my experience and those of my friends, whenever we are committed to someone we tend to "let ourselves go"a bit. Only time we start bringing sexy back is when we are single.

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Well he goes to the gym every morning and night and he's getting to muscular, I think the marines had something to do with it he's my highschool sweet heart and we have 4 kids
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That means nothing. If he is indeed looking for something else, he's gonna go after it. You need to bring this up and try and get him to change. If he doesn't then you know your days are numbered. The most valuable thing a man gives a women is time. A man knows when he's not treating his lady like she's special.
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Thank you i will try that tomorrow hopefully it works
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Put the "voodoo"on him real good. I mean good. Then talk to him!

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