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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. I feel like he stopped showing interest in me even when I try. What do I do?

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I Dealt with this problem too. exactly the same. I brought it up to him, hard as it was cuz i'm not one to ask, then I kept telling him things he used to do to see if he would return to trying that way, finally I realized he didn't want to try so I broke up with him. It was hard, I Took it back the day after and then I told him it was over... It was good, I have a new boyfriend now and it's been almost a year and he's only treating me better now than when we started. I'll see if it continues. A relationship need two people trying, it's unfair for him to receive and not give no matter if u mind or not, it damages your spirit.

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Communicate your issues. So he knows he needs to "fix" things. Make sure you are giving him the things you want him to give you.

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Nothing is as important in any relationship as communication. You have to sit down with him and tell him what you feel because to him, he might not have changed. It might be possible to go back to when you met, but I'm sure he can find some ways of spicing things up a bit.

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just make sure you share your feelings with him, tell him how certain things make you feel. try to give him examples of how he makes you feel, and he will try if he wants to be with you.

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Take a trip to Spencer's. LOL
But seriously communication is important. Talk to him.

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Quit "trying." Just be yourself.

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