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My boyfriend doesn't call me everyday. He thinks he should only call when he feels it and when he has something to say..! Is that normal?

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My boyfriend calls and texts me everyday. As time goes on we communicate more, not less. The same goes for the boyfriend before that, and the one before him.

The truth is that most guys, not all but most, do not like to talk on the phone. We can talk for hours, similar to shopping, but they are more mission oriented. Like he said, he calls when he has something to say. He probably shops when he has something to buy. He get it and he leaves the store where as we might browse for hours. This is just a general rule but true.

Tell him how you feel, that you would like daily communication. Most girls do.

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Well in my opinion I don't think it's normal cause my boyfriend calls me everyday or text me everyday even if he's busy. Maybe he is cheating on you, You should talk to him about it

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No think positive and he doesn't feel like your bf feels!
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im sorry god
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aww ur boyfriend's sweet! I think her bf is cheating on her :|
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Lol!!!
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He isn't cheating on her... He wants to spend time with his friends too.
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But if he really loved her he wold call everyday even if he is with his friends or whatever and thnxxx sportsgirl22
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Well he shouldnt have to call u every day! But if he really really liked you he would at LEAST text u "hey" or something each day... Maybe u should talk to him about it.

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yes. they want to have freedom just like you do sometimes, too. but if you feel he doesnt talk to you enough, you should tell him how you feel.

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Yep that's ok as long as you both love each other. You can start sending massages and wait for the response.

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If someone really loves another person, they will seek them out and put the other person first. Love means wanting to make the other person happy and doing whatever it takes to help that person be the best they can be. Love is sacrificial, not selfish-- but that means forgiveness, too. If you love him, try to understand him and don't be too clingy if he doesn't like that. But that also means he should be wanting to spend time with you. I'd talk to him and try to find a balance. Hope that helps.

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I think he might be cheating O.o No affence

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No affense but you can't spell OFFENSE!
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lol
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Offense. Defense. Build a fence!
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Haha :)
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Yes! This is really normal, and is what all NORMAL people do. No guy calls you just to "talk" that's what your best friends are for.

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See what I mean? They don't typically call just to chit chat. Believe me.

Thumbs up friend for making my point. :-) have a good one!
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Why do you want him to call when he has nothing to say?

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To ask about me and to Make sure I'm fine
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I think your bf is normal
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I think you should confront him, he could be cheating. But he also could just be busy. not sure but defiantly talk to him about it! :)

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Could be true.
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