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How do you know it's love and not just physical attraction?

This girl that I'm going out with is amazing. I asked her out because she is funny, cute, and charming. I really don't care about her looks. Don't get me wrong, she's really pretty, it's just... I fell in love with her personality.

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Well Mal, the way I can tell love when I feel it, is complicated. If your heart skips a beat when you hear her name or voice, if she is your last thought at night and first in the morning, chances are it could be love. Love does not happen at forst sight or instantly like tha movies would like us to believe. All love begins with some type of attraction. As you learn about each other, and begin to grow together, love begins. It is a hard instant to define. Much like when do you consider the moment night becomes dawn. I know it is kind of sappy, but lets face it my young friend, love is an illogical, sappy condition that we all want to have! Good luck to you and your new girl!

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Well sounds like you answered your own question. You fell in love with her personality and she's lucky to have found you or you found her.

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this might just be love.

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When you actually fall in love with someone... You will know. I know many amazing women... beautiful, funny, intelligent. fun to be around, I love them dearly... but am only in love with one of them.

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When she is the last thought before you go to sleep, the first when ya wake up, and every thought in between. When the thought of her makes you smile at any time. When you can't stand being apart from her.

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