You seem to be asking "chatty" questions. Try rewording them so they don't appear chatty such as "in my opinion it seems every one is single now a days. If you are single, why do you chose to be single?" Something like that. You are still basically asking who is single but not in a chatty way.
Don't worry, it's not you. I tried to ask this questions 1000000000 times but they said that my question was ''violating'' the community. It's the fact that the answer check thing in ask.com in stupid and idiotic. There are more hidden stuff in the guidelines. How do I know? because I wrote a thing that didn't say in the guidelines and they said that I ''violated'' the community.