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It's me and my girlfriend's three month anniversary! It's just, I'm nervous about what to get her- please help!

We are 14 years old and going into 9th grade. We are both very smart. Both of us were elected "Most Likely to Succeed" in 8th grade before we started dating. We were elected by our peers. They pick one girl and one boy for each category (there are other superlatives). I think she is smarter than me. She thinks I'm smarter than her. That's about how much we argue! Literally, that was our most heated argument in 3 months. I play hockey and she swims and sings. The gift I thought about giving her was a poem. But I am nervous to give it to her. I am fairly shy and like to take relationships slow, especially since this is my first one. We have not kissed yet, but I think it is going to happen soon. We have both agreed to take it very slow. I already have the poem created. Its about how I like her and how I think she is beautiful and attractive but I like her personality more. The next problem I have is that we are going to a church festival for our anniversary. How do I get a 12 line poem into a church festival without the poem being damaged (wrinkled or folded). We are also going to be surrounded by her friends most of the night. The festival starts at 6, and we are meeting her friends at 7, And we are eating dinner at 6 also. I do not want to give her, her gift with other people around. My handwriting is also fairly big and not neat. I will be wearing basketball shorts so I can fit a card into my pockets without it being damaged. Also for our one month anniversary I got her chocolate covered strawberries. I helped to make them. For our two month anniversary I got us each gourmet red velvet cupcakes. If you people have any ideas on what I should get her, answer away!Thank you for all your help (no inappropriate answers need reply).

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aren't you sweet and innocent you do so much for her it makes me cry. i'm the same age i was voted the smartest in my class and the most likely to succeed. but recently i feel horribly stupid because i let a guy get to close and he shredded my heart. recite her the poem in a private place, like a ferris wheel or on one of the rides, or just move a little away from the carnival, or read it to her in the actual church. or you could bake her another dessert and give her a piece on a plate with the poem in an envelope to the side. promise me you'll never break her heart, or i'll kill you. if she breaks your's, sweetness, i'll kill her, i'm just kidding. you two have a beautiful blossoming relationship, no guys ever written me a poem.

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I won't break heart and if things ever do not work out between us I will make sure that neither of us get our hearts broken! Meaning I will comfort her, but I see us being together for a while.

I am sorry things didn't work out between you two.
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Sorry for the grammatical errors in my last comment.
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Are you meeting with her first before u meet with her friends? If so u can give it to her then or at least tell her u want to get her alone later bc u have something special to give her. Good luck! She'll love ur gift(:

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Yes we are. Thank you!
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Don't get her anything

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Killjoy Sucka. don't listen to lex, sms12599: he's going trying to smother the sweetness in your relationship i mean you two definitly love each other you don't have to get her a gift but i'd be nice if you did.
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seriously, this depressio get's a helpful point before i do, this place.
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U think if they truely love each other there is no need of gifts them seeing each other should be all the gifts they will ever need
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Dude there is no need for gifts in our relationship. I got her a gift for going on vacation, to ease the car ride. It was a $25 dollar gift card for iTunes. She called me and said that the gift was unneeded. She also asked if she could return it. I said no, because I knew she would use it because she likes music. End of story. I have a job and make enough money to buy both of us things. I also save 85% of my money for emergencies. Such as my phone breaking 5 days ago. I had to buy a new one. I went from an iPhone 4 to a 5.
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