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I want to break up with my bf its kind of like he loves me and treats me well but I just cant feel anything towards him it makes me feel heartless I just feel uncomfratable talking to him how do I tell him and not upset him

also we are in a long distants relationship

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aww I'm sorry to here. the longer you wait it'll be worse for you. he'll soon know you aren't interested and be worried. very worried. so do it as soon as possible and let him down easy. let him know if u still wanna be friends

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Thank you for the advice
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Honey, i've soo been there. But ultimately, itz not fair to him in the long run he'll be hurt anyway, cuz you can't love him like he deserves. Itz like that old 70's song says..Sometimes you gotta be cruel to be kind.

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So I just have to tell him upfront and honest
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No matter how you approach telling him he is going to be upset. Be straight forward and honest with him.

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Break up with him. The longer u wait the harder it's gunna be. Do it now

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Just be honest with him. Tell him you hate him, tell him you never want to speak to him again. Just be completely honest. Tell him you have moved on and found someone else. Rip his heart out, so that he hates you for it, so that he WANTS to leave you, and he wants to forget about you.

I want you to just be honest, and tell me that you hate me.
lol, I knew it was coming anyways. I'm really not upset, I just hate that you keep lying to me, and then you think that it is appropriate to tell hundreds of people online how you feel, but not me.
I'm totally cool with it though :D I know you don't love me, and I am honestly not hurt at all. It really would be better if we just broke up.

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Sorry I was getting advice and yeah im sorry were over long distant relationships never work and I dont hate you I just dont love you im sorry
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Stop apologizing, it's not your fault :P It's totally ok, I'm cool with it. I'm not upset at all :D And, yeah... Long distance sucks. The relationship was really stressful, I'm glad it's over.

Seriously, don't worry. I'm not upset at all :) I wish you would have just been honest with me though, it's getting annoying :P

Anyways... There's no reason why we can't just be friends, is there?
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Yeah being friends is fine long distant friend relationships are cool but long distant love relationships are stressful
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Hey could you get on deviantart and chat with me? im bored lol :p plus I think we always have had more of a brother sister relationship :D your protective like a older brother and im crazy and childish :3
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Yay :D I thought you wouldn't want anything to do with me :P I'm glad were still friends :3

Did you unblock me on dA yet?
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Yeah I just sent you a note :3
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