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can you be happy
if people around you are so miserable?

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Hi jasminejave! We can't always be around upbeat people, because life does have difficulties. Even the most cheerful person will have times that are stressful.

I consider problem ownership. Their angst is theirs, and it is theirs to cope with. I am supportive, but I do not own their problems or solutions.

I live my life with the joy I embrace. When I have my own rough patches, I work hard to resolve the situation as best as I can. I purposefully seek laughter and love. I have been through many dark days, (We all have those!) and yet I am always Happy2BeHere. Without the hard times, the easy streaks would get dull. It's life. It's wonderful!

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Wow Happy!! Awesome answer!!!******
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Hi Witt! Thanks for sending me so many wonderful messages! I've been thinking about you tons!

So, how did those treatments work out? Is Botix effective for migraines?
I have an aunt in similar circumstances. She has had zero luck. How are you?

My chronic pain is in my foot, Mr. Happy's is in the tummy, and yours is in the head. We pretty much have it covered! Head to toe - YOWSA!!!!

You always have every warm wish in my heart aimed right at you! <3
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Thanks Happy2!!
The final jury is still out on the Botox, I vacillate on that answer, seems a bit better, the funky halo's seem less often, yet definitly not the "miracle" I was hoping for.:(.
Have decided to follow Neurologists suggestion, try 2 treatments before final dicission. Just so few options left which don't involve being all drugged up, and that's not a solution in my eyes! Literally! ha,ha!!
Wish your Aunt lotsa luck in her search for solution, let me know if she finds anything!

Lets see here....you give me a kick in the head... we look like idjits, all hold tummy's laughing at insanity.... all three forget pain? LoLoL!!!
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HA! :D. LoLoL!! This is why I adore you! :D
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:8))!
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Yes and you can try to make them happy

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Yes you can be happy :) it might also help them

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Yes, you may even lift someone spirit!

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Absolutely. YOU are responsible for your OWN emotional well being....no one else.

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yes you can, and most likely it will lift the spirits of those around you, hope that helps! :)

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As a unknown comedian to some of my friends, i would hang out with the sad person and another person thats happy, and talk and make jokes till the sad person wants to join in

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