He has to be more than handsome, funny, and nice in my opinion. Sure, those are great attributes, but for my own individual needs and wants in a man, you'll need more than that. Not that I'm a super demanding, high maintenance type of woman, I'm just unique, like every woman you'll meet. It's merely impossible to satisfy her every personal desire in a mate.
I feel ya man same thing with me.But say if your a real funny dude like a class clown or a jerk to some people she might not want to go out with you.But I don't know if that's situation your in if your not in that situation start flirting with girls they always want guys do make the first move :) good luck!