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I've met a man. He's nice, but my parents don't like him! Plz read more...

So far he is fun to be with. I am still figuring everything out between us, because my parents don't like me seeing him. I respect and love both my mother & father, but I don't tell them much. THEY HAVE BOTH INTERFERED IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS of mine and I won't have that again. But, what do you think?

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You need to explain to your parents that you are an adult and can handle your relationship issues in person. Make them understand that the man you are in love with is a good man that can take care of you despite what they think. It may be very difficult to convince them, but you have to try keep him if you love him. You can as well ask them why they break your relationships every now and then and see whether they have a valid reason.

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Well, if you're old enough, then just keep it separate until you figure it out. Just take it one day at a time.

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well, how old are you? if you are at least 18 in years, it is you that matters and not what your parents think.

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I'm 32...
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and there you have it.
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yeah if you in 18 than no matter, and if he is nice and kind than show it to your parents, they will be ok.

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Well I believe that if you are old enough, then your parents should respect your privacy & your judgement. I'm sure that you respect them, & I'm wondering if you are an only child that they are not ready to let go of ? You have to live your life not them!! Please remember that!! Once they see that the two of you are truly happy & that they can not break you apart they will see that your love is stronger than them! Good luck & Stand Strong!! :-)

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Your Welcome!! :-)
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welll, our parents just worry bcoz they have more experience in life than us so we should hear then. maybe ur parents dont know this guy so they are not feeling safe with him so why dont u sugest to ur parents about inviting him to a dinner where they will know more about him...i believe that they will let u be with him if they make sure u are in a good hands

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Thank you zinho!
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Okay! From what I'm reading and hearing you said is this you met a man! You said he's nice but your parents don't like him?
If I'm hearing you correctly?
You really have to know who is this person?
And how then you're so sure that his nice?
And why is your patents their not accepting him as a person that they should allow their beautiful daughter to have relationship with?
Miss. I am a guy friend here trying to answer your question?
I know how guy think because I am one myself.
We men like dogs. So be extra careful.
Please do your part of investigation about this person.
It's useful to take time and ask for advice from either your church leaders of older folks that they've been in relationship before.mam be bless.
Hoping to hear from you?
:)

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Interesting to read :) Thanx!

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