I thought it was here, but you are correct in that it can be restrictive. Which at times I appreciate. In other respects I think it is not restrictive enough. Like the time I advised a young gal being verbally attacked to not pay any attention to it but to those of us who cared about her and the situation. And MY comment was pulled not the abusive ones! I saw your latest question had be removed. But answer here, ichc is a good site. ICANHASCHEEZBURGER. Animal lovers galore.