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What are some reasons why guys like to take things slow?

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Weber50

some guys want to take it slow because they like you and Don't want to lose you. the hard fact is that if a guy wants to sleep with you right away chances are all he wanted was to make a deposit in your bank then go- wanted your body only. also some are old fashioned and want to be proper

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Thanks. I'm not really used to the slow guys but he keeps sending me mixed signals one minute he's flirty and the next minute he backs off
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you like it fast?
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not really those guys turned out to be douches. The slowness takes some getting used to
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well I wish you all the best- there are decent guys out there
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thanks
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To drag it out and make the excitement last longer. When I was dating my now-wife we took it slow, one step at a time, it was like being in high school again! Plus a guy should do that anyway just to be a gentleman.

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Thanks the guy I've been dating he's been taking things really, really slow and he hasn't even made a 'move' yet I'm worried that I end up really really liking him and the feeling isn't mutual
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Well not making a move and denying YOUR move are two different things. Try to kiss him, if he turns his head don't waste anymore of your time.
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Lol that is so hard for me to do cause I never had to make a move on a guy before
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They want to get to know you and want the relationship to be perfect before going further. Gby

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They want you to think they are gentlemen. Im a guy and I can assure you guys don't generally want to take it slow. We love women! But we are guys, not perfect, but we do try to be gentlemen

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So you think this is a way of him trying to make me fall for him?
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Yes, he sounds like he is trying to get this one right. Good Luck
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Because it is respectable and they really like you. But don't just assume it either. Not only that, if he says he wants to take things slow always watch his actions they must match in with what he speaks.

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Thanks but everybody tells me that oh he's gay cause he hasnt made a move yet I have respect for him too and I like that he waits but sometimes I would like to atleast get a kiss goodbye
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If a guy goes too fast he could get impotent easier from stress

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