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This is really awkward but how does a girl make a move on a guy?

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Show interest and don't EVER be desperate.

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If he is nice and you like him, ask him out to a movie or to do something fun with your friends, like bowling.

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We've done all that before and the worst thing we've done is hold hands lol
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try to make him laugh

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I always have him laughing he's waiting for me to make the first move and I've never done that before
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Twerk ... Jk. I'm not at liberty to tell you because I'm not sure of your age and don't want to see you on 16 and pregnant.

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lol I'm 21
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lol
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Well show him what your twerking with . I'm a guy twerk team 2013 dont mean to brag thank you very much . Jk I dance like a white person . This is why I do not dance . I prefer to make the girl suffer cause I'm just that mean. My last Gf made the first move. Maybe he just wants to make you want it and waiting for the right moment . If its been a year or a ridiculous amount of time like that he either doesn't want to do that or is too nervous .
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its only been 2 months. Lol. On our second date I was the one who ended up holding his hand
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Well did he at least smile ?
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All the time. He claims that he's never had to make a move on a girl before and he's waiting for me and I'm waiting for him smh
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You should give him a hard time jokingly . Ask him if he doesn't have enough game to make a move .
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Then after that don't make a move for awhile and see what he does .
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he would answer me back after in a smart way and act like he's gonna do something and when he's about to make a move he's gonna pull back. He's really shy for some reason
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He's either playing with you or he's not confident enough to make the first move .
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I told him be straight up with me and don't play with my head, he said he wouldn't waste his time and lead me on...But he could just be saying that but I really do have a good feeling about him, he's taken me to his house to meet his parents and he's met mines already
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Well it sounds like he's just a bit shy and might not have the confidence to follow through and make the move . At this point I don't think you should worry if he took you to meet his parents I doubt he has negative intentions . Try encouraging him maybe you can help him build up some confidence . Help him work on his "game."
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Or maybe he wants to take things slow because he truly likes you after all he did take you to his parents .
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Your right his parents and me get along and stuff. I should make the move whats the worst that can happen?
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Yea he also doesnt want to mess up cause he got really close to my parents and doesn't want to disrespect them
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He sounds like a good guy to me . Maybe you should take things slow . My guess would be he wants to take things slow . He seems like the old fashion type of guy . Those are pretty rare . A lot of guys just want to jump straight into the sex . Appreciate that this guy doesn't .
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Yea that's what everyone's been telling me lately. But thanks for the good advice!!
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Your very welcome . Good luck ^_^
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Thanks :)
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Simple. For starters simply ask him what his name is.

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We got past that stage we've been talking for like two months
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Give him a peck on the cheek and see if he takes the hint and makes his move.

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And if it doesn't?
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You're screwed. No pun intended.
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Then look him in the eyes and tell him kiss you.
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That's all I'd need to do???
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You don't need to give me a peck, just give me the "look" and I'm all over you.
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Well.... I'm "lookin'"!
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I'm warming up the chopper right now.
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Hurry!
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Lol does the look still work?
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Yep! Sure does. Lol
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He's a old fashioned guy, holds the door, pays the bill, and doesn't make a move
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Well, give him the "look" and a peck on his cheek. If that doesn't light his fire..........??? Good luck. :-)
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rotfl thanks
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I just read in another comment that you are 21 years old, so I can say this now..............jump his bones. How would he react to that?
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Shocked most likely but I don't want to seem like the type of girl who rushes things
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You sound like a very nice girl. He should be greatful.
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Lol thanks. He has a bad past with his ex and he's afraid that I end up messing him up the way she did
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There's a LOT of moves that the female could make that could suggest something more, which would result in premature pregnancy. I am not permitted to list them, and doing that would probably get me kicked off this site. However, the girl could simply lean in, flutter those sparkling eyes, any give a nice, long, juicy kiss.

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