To be honest, as much as anyone would like to say otherwise, we all judge on looks before anything else. If you're not attracted to a person physically, what is the point in taking the relationship any farther?
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Last edited at 8:01PM on 7/17/2013
just had this conversation with a dear friend looks matter first.. persona matters most .. by far guys cant get past her looks.. she owns a business with 87 distribution centers more than anything.. she has been through life and is real.. deep.. compassionate and giving.. men seem to miss that part.. common tale looks are secondary to me.. inside out.. always
I found a quote once and I don't remember who said it, but it was something to the effect of this.
You might see a really beautiful or handsome person and go and talk to them, but their personality overshadows their looks and they are kind if ugly in your eyes. And if you see someone who is more plain, and you go talk to them, after a little while, they will become the most attractive person in the whole world because their personality is amazing.
That was an awful interpretation and the person that said it did a much better job, but I think that the message is clear.
In short, be yourself. If a guy can't accept you for you, then he isn't good enough for you.
Well I have had conversations with my closest guy friend about this. He said that he judges based on personality and how good of a person the girl is on the inside and if she is pretty than it is just a bonus. But he did say girls attract more guys (not necessarily the good ones) based on looks
Mostly looks you can be the most ugliest person ever and have a great personality a hit guy isn't ganna like you. If ur ugly which I think no one is. Do ur hair better loose weight get a tan put on make up. And you will see a difference