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Do guys judge on looks or personality more?

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To be honest, as much as anyone would like to say otherwise, we all judge on looks before anything else.
If you're not attracted to a person physically, what is the point in taking the relationship any farther?

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so true
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Sad though.
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sniffle
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*hands you a tissue*
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blows really really hard..
shares back..
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Ewwwie!
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sharing issssss caring!.. ? right?
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Haha... in this situation you keep your hankie.
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it was yours goof
here have mine (unwads from last month)
and dont stop singing.. you have a nice voice/heart/thang
:-)
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"Welcome to the jungle, we got fun 'n' games
We got everything you want, honey we know the names
We are the people that you find, whatever you may need
If you got the money, honey we got your disease"

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Welcome to the jungle we take it day by day
If you want it you're gonna bleed but it's the price to pay
And you're a very ummm cute girl that's very hard to please
You can taste the bright lights but you won't get there for free
In the jungle welcome to the jungle
Feel my, my, my serpentine
Ooh, I want to hear you scream
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Such a great singer!
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rubs knuckles on my chest .. ahhh gee wiz
shuffles feet.. as his girl fawns.. and.. (world stops and he wakes up)

oh you mean.. those guys
er uhhh
yes he is..
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LOL No I meant YOU. silly
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who me? really? meeeee? (does a despicable me dance)
(stretches arms out and helicopters into the distance).. arnt you coming with?
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*pushes stray hair out of her eyes*
Yup count me in!
Another starry night I see! :)
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ikr.. can we get Helix on the talkie and ask what that constellation is right there?
hey there's another stray hair.. let me
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*smiles as I look at the sky*
I think that's the big dipper silly goose!
If you'd like to walkie Helix though, please do tell him hello for me :)

-must get ready for work-
See you on the other side?
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other side stuff
ok... wait is that the "b" side
or tomorrow?
or in a bit?
either way.. hugs n stuff
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Haha, I leave for work in 10 minutes :) Then I'll be back on ask, in like 30. So the B side, is a bit.
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whew.. ok then.. geesh.. thought i had to wait forever :)
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*hands you a fresh picked daisy*
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now thats cute.. way
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Aww how nice of you two having a conversation lol
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BOTH. I have standards.. it involves both greatly.

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Looks,that may not be what the ugly girls want to hear,but it's the truth.

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personality I grew learnig never judge a book by its cover or a person

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Looks

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sadly looks

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just had this conversation with a dear friend
looks matter first.. persona matters most .. by far
guys cant get past her looks.. she owns a business with 87 distribution centers
more than anything.. she has been through life and is real.. deep.. compassionate and giving.. men seem to miss that part..
common tale
looks are secondary to me.. inside out.. always

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I found a quote once and I don't remember who said it, but it was something to the effect of this.

You might see a really beautiful or handsome person and go and talk to them, but their personality overshadows their looks and they are kind if ugly in your eyes. And if you see someone who is more plain, and you go talk to them, after a little while, they will become the most attractive person in the whole world because their personality is amazing.

That was an awful interpretation and the person that said it did a much better job, but I think that the message is clear.

In short, be yourself. If a guy can't accept you for you, then he isn't good enough for you.

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Well I have had conversations with my closest guy friend about this. He said that he judges based on personality and how good of a person the girl is on the inside and if she is pretty than it is just a bonus. But he did say girls attract more guys (not necessarily the good ones) based on looks

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Depends in the boy

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Sorry it's looks, but that doesn't mean if you don't find yourself attractive a guy won't. I do believe that there is somebody out there for everybody

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I think only god should have the right to judge his creations

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Looks, but not every guy is the samet

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* same
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joesiyha

most of the time both. but like hipstapleaze said not every guy is the same.

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Mostly looks you can be the most ugliest person ever and have a great personality a hit guy isn't ganna like you. If ur ugly which I think no one is. Do ur hair better loose weight get a tan put on make up. And you will see a difference

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it is always LOOKS .... it is sad, but it is the truth

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um well they normally judge on looks right away

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It's sad to say but generally guys judge on looks. If they're really sweet they'll usually seek for the personality

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