Is my boyfriend in it for the long haul?
my bf and I have been dating for over 10 months now (and we have known eachother for almost 2 years)
About 5 months into our relationship (while i was still sceptical about marriage) he kept telling me and everyone around us , incl his family that he was going to ask me to marry him by the end of this year. However, recently we have been getting the "so when are you two getting married" q alot and his response is anything but excited and self assured. he would say something like "We'll see" or "Maybe later"
When I asked him about it he said that he still loves me and still wants to marry me but he isn't sure if he should ask me when we are fighting as much as we do (about twice a week). He said he is waiting to see if it gets better, and if it does he will ask me.
Now I feel like I need to change in order for him to want to marry me. We are living together and have been for 8months (HIS IDEA AS I DIDNT WANT TO AT ALL) We are both 23.
What should I do? I hate the feeling of him being in charge and being the one to decide when he is ready to marry me..It seems unfair