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How do you confront your boyfriend when you find out your he's cheating on you?

I logged onto his facebook account without him knowing and read one of his messages from a girl. i dont know how to confront him about it because he doesnt know i go on his facebook??!!!!

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Seems your being just as dishonest by looking into his FB. I would just break up with him and not say anything snout reading his messages.

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You should talk to him and ask him in a polite manner about the message. Secondly, have a heart-to-heart talk with him and find out how he views your relationship. Thirdly, give him an ultimatum of whether to leave the other relationship or lose you. Finally, if you fail to talk with him, meet a counselor and get some guidance to deal with the situation.

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The exact same thing happened to me. If he's cheating on you, you shouldn't care whether he breaks up with you for being aggressive or not. He's not worth it. And if he really loved or liked you, he wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place. Just confront him and tell him straight up that you know.

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don't mind it. cheat on him!!!!

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Well first off if you go on his Facebook, you don't trust him. Now that you have been on Facebook and found this out, you can never trust him again. Dump him before you get a STD. Their is someone better out there for you, that won't cheat and love you even more.

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You should go on one if those shows like Jerry Springer

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He obviously gives you reason to distrust him enough to check on it and found out... He has and is cheating on you! Come out and ask him a casual question of what he thinks is worse; if I cheated on you or if you checked up on me through my texts or my FB? This way he cannot turn it all around on YOU as people usually do when they are guilty. Then when you can get a straight answer out of him. Tell him he makes you crazy jealous and checked up on him. You found out HE CHEATED! He is a waste of your time! He is using you and anyone else he wants to mess with. Find some nice trustworthy guy. They are also looking for you... Good luck, you deserve better. ur Auntie Dixie

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Exactly what pssst said, obviously yu had a reason to go on his facebook & read his messages, yu dont trust him. Obviously yu shouldn't have.

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If I think someone is lying to me or cheating on me, I guarantee you I'm going to open my eyes wide open. I will not feel guilty one iota for having checked him out. (I'm not as dumb as I look and just one-half as dumb as I act!!) Now.......to your question: how would I confront him (goes for "her's" too)? Calm, cool, collected, prepared, and be the one in charge. If he doesn't see you coming, that big iron skillet up side his head won't hurt him nearly as much!

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Just ask him straight up. Don't mention about the girl on fb first. When he denied it, then be honest and say you log in on his fb account and saw that message. Say sorry too, then leave him. This relationship wont last any longer I think.

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