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If I were in love with a guy and then I realized that I love another one too,does it mean that I didn't love the first one truly?

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Well first off I have no idea how old you are and if you really know what love is so it is hard to say if what you are feeling is really love or just like or infatuation etc. Now that being said I don't think that there is just one person in the world that you can love. What are the chances that most people grow up in the same town as their one true love really? I think there are many people in the world that you can love and be completely happy with. Just because you love one person does not mean you can't love somebody else. I do think that you have to make a decision because what ever you put your time and effort into is what you will want.

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No, it means you're really young.

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Not necessarily.
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am 17 so...maybe
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No it doesn't. It simply means that there are two people that you would enjoy spending time with but you have to pick one.

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Unless they don't mind sharing. Lol
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no. you can love more than one person at a time. your heart is big enough. just make sure to choose who you want wisely

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Unless they're okay with sharing her. Lol
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lol sounds like fun ;p
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kind of...but i would consider it as a crush...maybe..

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can I ask u another complicated question?
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Not necessarily. I bet there are women out their with multiple husbands.

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am not that kind of woman thank u!
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Lol, just a suggestion.
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No, it just means that you found someone with the personality traits that the first one didn't have.

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yes, it does mean that you didn't truly love the first one

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Stop calling it love every time you like somebody. It's not a movie. Life's complex. Don't you know how you feel?

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I " love "him,deal with it lol
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Liking somebody is a form of loving them.
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I don't know.. it may depends on his behaviour, the way he treated you and the time you spent together.. if you feel that something changed on your relationship that means it wasn't the right guy for you and that's why you let yourself love someone else! it may means that you've been hurt and the second guy helped you escape for a lil bit.. but that doesn't mean that you didn't truly love the first one!
But it also may means that you're too young (i don't know how old are you) to say that you truly loved someone.. it's difficult to say something like that in a young age.. it may was just a crush and you got over it! :)

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I didnt get over the first one :(
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Oh.. So what made you love another guy? Did he hurt you and you just try to persuade yourself that you love someone else?
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maybe
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I would say probably, but how old are you? and do you really know what love is? I got married at 19 and thought I knew what love was.... and honestly I didn't have a clue until I met my BF that I have now - I never felt this way about my Ex husband. Did I love him, well I certainly thought I did when I was 19, but back then I don't think I had a clue what love really was. I am totally in love now and would heaven and earth for my man now :)

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am 17 and turnning to 18 after 3 months but it doesnt neccessary mean that I don't know love,however am not going to marry anyone(no offense) and am glad for u!
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oh and I am not saying you don't know what love is.. you certainly may.. I was just saying after actually finding love in my 30's... I really never knew what it was back then... > I thought I did... until I really found love for real. Good luck to you!
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thank u ^^
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Either it means you love both...or you have no idea what love even means.

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For once, I agree with you.
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that doesn't answer my question!
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Yes, it does.
Here is my answer in other words: Either you love both or none.
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No.

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I'm trying to be nice so I voted your answer as 'Helpful' for no reason. :)
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Thanks! Ms Generous.
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You're welcome. :) Hehe!
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