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How do I impress the girls?

I'm a track star I have all the confidence I have okay looks but I'm short I'm 5'6 and well every girl is very judge mental of ones self height and body. I'm short and I've haven't had a GF in awhile so I'm out of game. The girls at my school are snobby and only go for the built tall guys who have terrible grades blah. I'm smart and funny and have a cool personality yet girls don't find me attractive. is it because of my height or my facial features? There's some girls who are nice but shy so how would I deal with that? what does a girl seek most in a guy?

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This is the most cliche and basic thing to tell someone like you but it is true as I am still a v!rgin. BE YOURSELF.

If you want the girls to notice and see you, get out there. Go out of your comfort zone and make them notice you. Be confident, a bit brash but not rude or jerkish. It's important to always be a gentleman if you're wanting to find a girl that'll be worth your time. Remember to stay true to yourself and be mindful of your surroundings as girls too do have a tendency to fool around with guys. YOU DON'T WANT THOSE KIND OF GIRLS.. or do you? haha!

Well, think up of some gentlemanly ways to sweep her off her feet somehow enough that you'd leave a good impression.

For example: She's walking by, smile at her, let her pass by, as soon as she's looking at you, look away, with a bit of a smug look, bite your lips. Walk away.. Don't do it again for a couple of days... She'll be thinking of why you did that and did not follow through. once you feel she's thinking of you enough approach her about something, homework, help with anything. Get her number.

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You're confident sweetie, let that shine. Girls LOVE a confident guy!
Height is not generally a factor when choosing a guy. (IMO).
If girls at your school are snobby, ignore those ones.
Perhaps talking to the shy girls is just what you need. Your confidence can help bring them out of their shells! :)
Go and just talk to them. Be friendly, don't go in strong. Start with a "Hello, how are you?" and see where it leads.

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Your the best!
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She's absolutely right! And also, just so you know, not ALL girls judge by height. I know I go by personality! So like Cjkenkel said, BE CONFIDENT!!! And ignore the snobby girls, because how awful would it be to be in a relationship with them anyway!?
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Start going up to them first and saying hey. Show then ur funny be sweet to then it probably is because of ur shortness or facial appearance. But there will be one girl out there who would love you so much and not care about what you look like or how short you are. When will you find her idk but she's out there looking for you. Don't give up!! And the #1 thing is your confidence!!! If you tell yourself your not cute and girls don't like you bc ur too short then you will BELIVE it. If you tell yourself I can get that girl I can do it! You will. Confidence is the key

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Some girls are just shallow aka snobby girls. I'm a shy girl and honestly I've been told shy girls/guys make for longer relationships. Just say hi how are you or help those shy girls with something like homework. Height is stupid to judge by. You seem like a really nice guy with a good personality and honestly from your picture you look cute, plus your confident. Good luck.

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Well if u want a cute girl then, dress good get abs and be good at sports and be a goof

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