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Am I wrong to ask my husband to delete a revealing picture of a friend?

She was across the table in a very low cut bathing suit.

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EquineEloquence

No, you are not wrong.
If he loves you, respects you and only wants you, ..,. deleting a photo online would not matter to him, ever.

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yes your wrong

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does your husband go through all your pictures of you friends and make you delete the ones he doesn't like?
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I didn't go through his pictures it was pictures from vacation. I neglected to say this lady is divorced.
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EquineEloquence
No, you are not wrong, skunk2. You are just fine.
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I'm with jam, he isn't telling you to get rid of pics he doesn't like.
you sound insecure, remember he married you not her. that low cut suit means nada to him and should mean anything to you either
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That photo shouldn't mean anything to him when his partner asks him to delete it.

It should be "no big deal for him to delete such a photo".
If it is a "big deal" for him to do that, than she should kick him to the curb, and not waste anymore of her precious time in life.
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why is her time precious and not his? hes didn't do anything wrong.
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These pictures are on his slide show on his 40 inch TV screen connected to his computer. She tends to flirt with him and I am leery of her. I have never been
jealous of any other women , but with her I am skeptical
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No way!! Ask him to delete it!! He will understand.

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be a sport -dont ever thing seriously

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It depends on the picture. We cant tell on that simple of a description...

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if its in his phone yes if its on a social media app for everyone to see then no

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You can ask, tell him how you feel, then drop it. Pick and choose your battles. It is just a picture. :0)
I know you are a strong woman and you are way more secure then that! ;0)

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No! You have every right! Why does he even have it in the first place??

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Is your husband making a big deal about the picture or are you just wanting him to delete it? If he is making comments about it then I would say you have a right to ask. If he isn't making a big deal about neither should you.

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Not at all.

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It depends: is it a jealousy thing? If so, the picture is only part of the problem. Is it for your friend's sake? Then by all means, have him delete it. Why is he keeping this picture anyway? If he's friends with your friend, let him keep it. If he finds her attractive and that's why he's keeping it, you have every reason to delete it yourself and kick him out of your life!

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BlueOnBlack

That sounds like the kind of thing that will be spewed forth during the next fight.."Oh Yeah?, well what about that picture you have of Tiffany?? Huh? Huh?"

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Hay stranger! How have you been?
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Yes, ask him. If you're a Christian you know women should be dressed modestly in public, and a sexy photo might lead to lust and other problems. I agree that "If he loves you, respects you and only wants you, deleting a photo online would not matter to him, ever."

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if he loves you then he will do anything for you , so ask him and he will understand .

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You girls take all the fun out of everything. ;) just teasin, i would guess you have the right to voice that you don't like the pic and it makes you jealous

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