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What is the best way to break up with a girl that i have had 4 dates in 4 months?

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Tell her "We only had 4 dates in 4 months...that's like seeing eachother once a month... Tell her that it can't continue being like this... Usually when people date they see eachother more often...it's just not working out with us... Tell her in person... But be sure to tell her u hade fun... Let's just be friends... And tell her that in person... She won't hate u

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Hmmm. Only four dates in four months? I think you might already be broken up...

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Just tell her point blank that you want to break up cause of what ever reason it may be.To break up on sms is a bad idea cause that way you never really do break up just keep on hanging. So i suggest call her up meet her and break up.

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If your worried about hurting her feelings...you could simply be honest(on phone)&tell her it's just not working out for you.If you do person to person(I think that hurts much worse)But phone is still personal,yet not as confrontational when it comes to possibly hurting someones feelings.Just my opinion.Do what you feel is best.But don't prolong it or it will be much harder..

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Tell her in person. Let her know it's not working out for you but you value her friendship.

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Never tell a girl through text always in person cause if it is through a text she may never talk 2 u again

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But in person they will probly slap u cross the face!
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I know this might not help but some girls are like that but you should know if she is if you don't know her like that just be careful how you tell her and hopefully she understands and you two can still be friends
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Have your new girlfriend tell her

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Just say you're not my kind of girl sorry then leave

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Say I think we should just be friends than run for ur life . No matter what u do she still will be hurt almost all girls r like that

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Just let her know things are not working out like you thought

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Be honest,not rude,but honest!

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4 dates in 4 months, not much of a relationship or romance. I would just not call or contact her and let it fade away gradually.

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just be honest and sincere. get straight to the point

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tell her that your not happy

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