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is it bad to like black men when you're a white girl? because i, personally, see nothing wrong with it. however, many other people do.

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If I answered yes to that I'd be the world's biggest hypocrite! haha :-)

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HahaXD. Good answer man .(:
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Thank you sir!
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I won't ask you if it was your daughter
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You and me both, Ton;)
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and you'd be sleeping in the dog house!!!!!!! lol
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Lane, my daughter is half black, I don't think it'll be a problem.
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Reese, have you gone over to the Dark Side?
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PBM, haha yeah I guess I would :-)
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My wife is biracial, so kinda;)
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i really like tony737's profile photo of him & his wife. so romantic. hello to mbrooke, i don't think anything is wrong that you like a black man. it sounds like this might be your first friendship with a black man. give time for both him and for yourself to know each other. no matter what color the individual is for both him/her both people should not try to rush into anything at first. enjoy your first conversations about life and what you both have in common. this all sounds romantic; lol. good luck.
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I personally think it is not bad to date black men when you are a white girl. This is because love does not necessarily look at race or color, it is simply a matter of two hearts coming together and making it work. Most people are attracted to certain traits of others not their colors.

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Great answer sarah!!****
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took the words out of my mouth and that is romantic.
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No, there is nothing wrong with it in my opinion; however you will find that in some parts of the world there are still racist people who disapprove of interracial couples. Just ignore them though, if you like black guys that's nothing to b ashamed of at all, quite the opposite in fact.

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There is nothing bad about interracial. Don't let the negativity of others bring you down, it is your relationship not theirs. Be happy :)

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that is so true.
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Who's many people. Times have changed . It's not the same way it used to be thank god. I couldn't imagine what it would be like without black women . It would suck .

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I could live without the honey boo boo type though .
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Yeesh! I'm glad I haven't eaten yet!
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as long as they're human, its fine.

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I personally think it not bad to like black men as some a very nice and caring to white girls but some black men can be dangerous and you have to be carful who you choose to like more

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Yeah....black men can be dangerous..so can white, Mexican, or Asian guys.
But the most feared are the purple ones!! lol
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Anyone can be dangerous.
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That was my point. lol
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It's not the race, it's who they are as a person.

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No of course not!!! Skin pigmentation or ethnicity has nothing to do with love.

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Nope, like or love whoever you want to. If people don't agree with it, that's their own problem.

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Want to go out with me
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No thanks, I have a boyfriend. Sorryy
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This is love, skin color doesn't matter! People who think it does are just silly...

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There ain't nothing wrong with biracial relationships, but racists don't see it that way. "I'm not gunna be with you because your skin is darker than mine!" Ridiculous, don't you think?

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Yup sore do!!
Hiya dawg!!!
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Wazap, Witt!
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Not much dawg, just hanging out trying to get rid of migraine..:(.
Wazup your end?
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Totally agree. Actually it's the darker skin that attracts me to black women.
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No there's nothing wrong with that! God created us each unique and special! It's just (in my opinion) it seems like people are still adjusting to black people as free people (not trying to be racist) like the way my grandma talks about them is still a little rude just from being raised in southern Mississippi! It takes humans a long time to adjust to huge changes in the world even if we weren't alive! It's just hardwired into our DNA like Jews probably still look at Germans a little different from the holocaust.

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Same with my g-ma and it irritates me so much
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I know she's so rude
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it, I see it as attraction see's no color

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Nope,you know it's not wrong, it ridiculous!!
However there are certain white women that ONLY date black men, if that's what you are referring to, it's fine,but unfortunently people will always get in your business.

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Hey, Bub:)
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Hey you! : )
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Hiya Bubbli and Reese!!:0).
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Hey, witte:)
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People are racist. I'm Hispanic and love white boys but if I tell my friends I'm weird or have bad taste...

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You're not goons care what they think when you're working to pay the bills and those kids are nowhere in your life anymore. Date whoever you like.
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realy..
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Goons? Hahaha GONNA ^
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I think it's fine!

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Like love and care for whomever you want. It's the eyes that see color and race. You cannot control how it appears to others, as you know, things will be said and thought, people will be cruel and judge, be sure you are the kind of person who can rise above all that. if you aren't, you will find that you are unable to give the relationship the attention all relationships deserve, because you fall to the opinions of others. I guarantee that if race , color and peoples prejudiced opinions of it being intermingled mean nothing to you, you will be able to have as good relationship as you would have with anyone else.

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Nothing wrong with it at all. People are people.

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Hey Rees! Staying on the down low I see! ; )
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Hiya Both! Have a great weekend!:0).
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Ha! Yes, Bub, I'be been keeping a low profile today;)
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And the same to you, witte:)
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Thank you!:0).
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One thing that you must take into account. How does your family feel?

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who cares! it's her life not her Mom's and Dad's! if it was something wrong i would think of what er family has to say about it but it's fine to date a black guy.
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I think it's good to respect your families opinions and preferences, but in the end it is your decision. I mean it's not like they are going to date/marry him!
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I have my beliefs about interracial dating and mating but what does it matter if that's what your attracted to no one should judge you because of that.

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Those people may claim to not be racist, but that is a very racist generalization they're making

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Not at all. This is 2013, not the 1950s...

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wow that is fantastic
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yes.
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Go with whoever you want to be with it doesn't matter. Do not worry about the outside it matters how you feel on the inside is what matters :D other peoples opinions does not matter your going to be with that person not them

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Usually racist people see something wrong with that.
However, there is nothing wrong with white people being with black people.

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No there's nothing wrong with it at all. I went out with a Hispanic guy and everyone was fine with it

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that is great.
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Skin color doesn't matter. It only matters who someone is on the inside. Be happy and have a healthy relationship, that's all that's important!!!!

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yes you very right
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That's not bad at all! We are all human, in the eyes of God there is no such thing as race.

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in my idea no it's not bad.

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why do you say is not bad?
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bacause all of us are human black or white.
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because we are of the same blood ....
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oh ok:)
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It's fine, just remember that once you go black, you can never go back.

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Whyever not? Is it because your community will despise you and cast you out? Does that still even happen?
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no nothing bad ..

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siesieu

no not at all. its normal stupid racism

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pple r so raciest
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no there is nothing wrong with dating/liking another race !! we are ALL human!! color shouldn't/doesn't matter

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Absolutely not.People that think that are racists

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People should do research on African roots.

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that's for you to decide. don't let other people make yours choices for you. if you like him go for it, don't worry about what other people say. its your life not theirs. everyone does everything differently

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Nothing wrong with it, love is blind. :)

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deep! Lol
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There is nothing wrong about it and yes people changed (seems to) yet every time when i walk with my hubby almost in ever country i visited people watch closely and whispers. personally i enjoy it and i wrap my hands over his and laugh out loud cause personally am happy with him + the way they look when they do that makes me cracks out :p

Only one time i got really afraid when couple of black people followed us from the street to the mall with a weird look on their face. They were in their car and when they saw us walking down the street they stepped out. Freaky -.-

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Hey no prob. We all have our preferences and tastes. I'm a mixed race result from many generations.

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Ofcours not if you think its right for you then why not :)))))

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well it doesn't matter as long as it doesn't mess your friendship with your parents up

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NO. not at all, don't listen to others. only what you think.

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I am a white girl dating a black guy but where im from its so diverse its completely normal to see biracial couples

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No, it's not wrong as long as you aren't making a fetish out of black men or dating black guys who make a fetish out of white women. I'm a black woman mostly attracted to white guys, but I don't date guys who have jungle fever.

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its not bad at all, only racist people see that as a problem.

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no .

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hello again mbrooke, i don't see anything wrong with dating a black man. i want to say that God is Love and Love is God. God does not see the color of our skin. Love has no color if this leads to love because your question is in form for "liking". this is romantic and good luck.

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not at all, unless you're racist.

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refer to your heart and you'll find the answer, don't fear the judgments of others. it's your life your chance to be happy. doesn't matter u find it with black or white

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Every human been is the same. We just different religion, color, gender. But if we put that all behind us, were all just the same. :)

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It is very difficult to describe!!!...Discrimination is one the dark side of our ''CIVILIZED'' society!!!...try to learn peace and harmony to decrease DISCRIMINATION!!!!

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Nothing Is Wrong With That! Your Perfectly Fine Don't Worry What People Think Of You :D

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no that is just how u r

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There's nothing wrong with it

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There is nothing wrong with liking a person from another race. I mean its just skin and as long as your family is okay with it than that is completely up to you in every way.Like whatever race youd like. Its your life that you have to live in and make your own choices.

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No sweetie its okay (:
but its your feelings not everyone elses. it all about what you think about that person. your the one dating them not your friends...or family...

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It's OK. We are all equal, don't we?

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no it is not wrong.. love is love

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I think this does not matter, as long as they do not mind.

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