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Should I let my trust issues become the best of me when I'm in a relationship?

I've been single for a long time now. Guys usually complain about my trust issues. I guess sometimes it does become me. How can I control it?

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You most likely aren't trusting because someone else broke your trust. You have to learn to take each new person in your life as they are, and not how someone else was. You wouldn't want to be judged by someone else's actions, would you?

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Continue to be aware of that which you should consider... But , Also, don't presume everyone is a threat as that will isolate you from just about everyone you meet.

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you cant ever be too careful when dating but still you shouldnt let it interfere with some things, just use your best judgement and trust your conscience to tell you,good luck!

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Mistrust is okay if you keep it to yourself, and quietly examine, ponder and even spy.
Nagging about trust or lack of it is a turnoff.
Your situation should have sharpened these skills. Good luck Sherlock.

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ok i had or still have some issues just like u n it does become quite a problem not just in ur relationship but ur every day life..school work u know?...so the best to do is look at ur self in the mirror and ask this questionS...WHY?SINCE WHEN?WHO? and make sure u write down the answer... then read it every time u feel u r the one to blame...just remember u can overcome this just dnt give up...NEVER SPECIALLY ON UR SELF

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Well not if ther issues !! Good luck

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Do not let yourself fall immediately for a guy, but don't build a wall around your heart. Give a relationship time to develop, and slowly let them know things about you.

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The right person will put these issue to rest . If your not trusting . It's because you are protecting your self from getting hurt . Natural response . When the right person comes along and you feel it's safe . Your fears will slowly leave . No worries .

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