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I like this guy that I met recently, and he wants to go out with me but I have a boyfriend that I've been with for 1 yr. what do I do?

I want to know what I should tell this guy that I like, should I let him know I have a boyfriend? or should I stay with my boyfriend and brush it off? I really like this guy but my boyfriend is planning on proposing to me in a few months. I have been really lonely lately, and I think that may be why I'm talking to other guys. but I'm not cheating on him. I don't know what to do.

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You're not cheating on him? You have a proposal coming up, and you are developing feelings for some to other guy. Seems like a clear picture of cheating. You don't deserve to be in a relationship, because you don't even know with you you truly wanna be. I would break it off, and discover myself, because you are obviously not emotionally ready for another relationship.

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agreed!
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What's with these questions!
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haha I know right I was thinking the same thing.. smh at relationships nowadays.
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lol, that's why i don't get teen relationships sometimes.
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haha same here
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When i see 14 year olds in my neighborhood french kissing, i think of myself as a dinosaur when it comes to relationship and i'm not that old!
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haha yeah there's 12 and 13 year olds at my school kissing and stuff.. like what do their parents teach them??
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And then we wonder why we have more and more teen parents. I heard that some states want to drop the age of consent to 16 now. Imagine in 10 years?
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exactly! I didn't know that, but it's gonna be terrible soon 9 and 10 year olds are gonna be parents if we keep this rate up
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I definitely agree! And btw I followed you :) Thanks!
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lol.
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compare between them

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If you like another person, you don't truly love your boyfriend. And you wouldn't want to hurt him like that. If he proposes, that'll be awful. Once he does that, you can't then back. Go with the other dude.

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Stay with your boyfriend. You shouldn't throw away someone you love. And as for that guy, tell him you can hang out with him but just as friends.

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stay with the one you want and what else you want.

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Don't cheat on him and cancel

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you are cheating on your boyfriend, you like another guy how is that not cheating?? and I think you should leave your boyfriend cause you obviously aren't faithful.. OR you should figure out who you really want.. and yes tell the other guy you have a boyfriend.

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be a playa, guys do it all the time.

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I have question for you. If he proposes to you, will you say yes. If no you should see the other person. If you would say yes you should stay with him and not see the other person.

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Clearly you don't love your current boyfriend. You've only been together for one year and marriage at this point is going to make your life worse. Leave your boyfriend whether or not it works out with the other guy.
You have to be a decent and fair person. Fair to your current and decent to this guy you like. Your current deserves someone that loves him completely and that's not you.
This guy you like doesn't deserve to be made an accomplice in an affair.

Breakups don't have to be a bad thing. In a year your boyfriend will be grateful to you for breaking up instead of marrying him.

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What you should do is discourage yoyr boyfriend from proposing because you are nowhere near ready for marriage. You sound more like a silly thirteen year old, not like a woman who is in love enough to get married. A mature, adult woman in a loving, committed relationship wouldnt even have to ask such an idiotic question. But since you did and yoyre supposedly have a serious enough relationship to get propised to you NEVER SEE OR SPEAK TO THE OTHER GUY AGAIN!!
Please dont get married. You so arent mature enough. You still talk like a highschool kid and you dont really seem into this relationship if you 'like' some other guy. Marriage would be a disaster of collosal proportions. Cheating isnt just physical. Cheating comes in many forms including emotional. If you 'like' another guy then your heart isnt fully with the boyfriend so you are cheating emotionally and if youve spent time with this ither guy without the boyfriend knowing then thats a form of cheating to, not to mention a type of lying and deception. Great way to have a supposedly committed relationship.

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She is a junior in high school lol. look at her profile.
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Then she DEFINATELY shouldnt be talking about proposals and marriage. Foolish children. So dead set on wrecking their lives. Whats her boyfriend even thinking?
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I don't claim this as my own but I don't know who said it. If you love two people choose the second because you wouldn't of fallen for the second one if you really loved the first.

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If you fall in love with two people choose the second, because if you really loved the first, you wouldn't of fallen for the second person

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Just stay together because if u don't you will probably miss a lot of stuff and up might miss a. Lot of stuff tha might happen

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How much do u love your boyfriend? Tell your boyfriend you have been feeling lonely lately

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Dont leave the one you love for the one you like!

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It's really up to you. No one can tell you what to do. It's your responsibility.

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It is time to tend to your first relationship. If you are lonely in this relationship, you need to consider that and what you're going to do about it. No relationship is perfect, well, except for the one I have now, but you get what I mean. But if you're lonely, why would you even consider getting married? Do you think being married is going to cure that loneliness? Marriage doesn't cure anything whatsoever, any more than having children cures anything wrong with a marriage. The relationship has to stand on its own, be strong, joyous, and satisfying as it is, if that's not true, marriage ain't gonna fix it! If you aren't happy with your relationship, and you don't want to fix it by communicating with your bf, then leave it and find someone else. The solution to your issue of loneliness isn't to be found by marrying your bf, or by staying with him while you talk to other guys online.

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Go for the second guy because if you truly loved the first guy you wouldn't have fallen for the second

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Do not ruin your chances with your gonna be fiance. If you current boyfriend has what it takes to make a marriage work do not allow this lusty feeling you have for this guy you met to ruin your chances at having a great marriage.

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like is different from love. It's your choice what if you choose the guy you likely most and then your expectation does'nt work out. One mistake, nothing left.

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You arent ready yet to be proposed, take a break from your relationship and try to figure out what you really want

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