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Should I Tell Her How I Feel If She Lives Far Away?

I've known this girl for a while now, and I realized that I liked her last year. I moved away that summer, so we didn't interact. This summer, I saw her, and our conversations were pretty intimate. She asked me if I thought it was OK for two people to like each other, but not to date. I said it was OK. I don't know if she likes me back, but I think she does.

I'm back at home now, and I haven't told her how I feel. Should I tell her that I like her immediately, over the phone, or should I wait until next summer and tell her in person?

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NO... do not wait... Let her know immediately... Life is too short to let any amount of time go by without letting those who you care deeply for be aware of your feelings...

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Thanks. I just am so afraid that she might say no, and it would ruin our friendship.
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That is a bridge that you have come upon that you will either have to cross by letting her know how you feel, or, walk away from, never knowing what could have been....
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Yeah... I think I'm gonna tell her, but I'm going to try and keep our friendship intact no matter what happens.
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Absolutely.... Being a true friend of yours, I am sure that your relationship will be not be compromised by your expression towards her...
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Just try calling her. If the way she speaks makes you feel like she loves you then try your best telling her. If the way she speaks is like just an old friend,who is not much bothered about you then wait till the next summer.

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That sounds like a good idea. I just might try it out :)
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All the best friend! ;)
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You should tell her how you feel if she lives far away. You can contact her via phone and let her know how you feel about her and for how long this has been. If she feels the same way she will let you know since she already asked you about dating. Try your best and see if you can manage long distance relationship.

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I'll try that :)
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