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Is it wrong for a mother to care more for men , then her own child ? Or am I wrong for stating the obvious ?

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I think it is very wrong! A mother should always care for her child. That is just me stating what I was taught when I was a young boy.

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Yes. If you put them before some random guy then you obviously put them before yourself . When you have kids they are before you and everything else is second .

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As a grown up I have had this conversation with my mom many times she did the same thing and she says sorry and never knew that's what she was doing. Maybe your mom does not know either. Being a mom is hard and sometimes our mistake are at the hand of our children. Just try to talk to her. I cry at everything so writing a note always helps me so I can get out everything that I wanted/needed too

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What the hell yes it is

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Random guys or husband?
Random guys, it's kind of a duh, they should never come before your child.
However, there should be a bond between husband and wife that a child cannot enter or break. Your child will go in to have their own life and family, your husband is the one you swore eternity to.

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When I was younger it was random guys , a few years ago she got married
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You should never feel unloved but you should also feel like your parents are a couple who are more than just your parents and that they are a pair who face the world together.
If your mother has failed at being a mother, my sympathies but know there are people here who have had the same and worse and learned and grown and become extraordinary people partly due to the hardships they overcame. You can do the same!
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God, children, husband

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honestly children are way to much of a blessing to just put any guy or yourself first not saying you are you half to be a wonderful mother to even care enough to ask if its wrong and honestly it is cause guys come and go but children are a lifetime and a forever love

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