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Ok I did something really bad with a boy.. what do I do?

so this boy is two years older then me and I had a huge crush on him an last night I snuck out an meant him outside at my friends apartments an we were walking an went in a storage room an started kissing an alot happened. I'm just ashamed. plus I am 14 an I just feel horrible not to mention he practically forced me to do one thing..

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He forced you to do "one thing"?
If he REALLY forced you, then you need to tell your parents.
However, if you are just saying that because you feel guilty for having done this, then you just have to live with it, and learn a lesson from it. There's nothing you can do to change the past. Move forward.

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He made me keep doing what I was doing
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"made" ?
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Yup
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You should tell your parents. But I don't really know but I hope everything works out for you.

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Well... why'd you do it if you're going to end up feeling guilty afterwords?
Tell your parents, it's the best and the right decision.

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Hi sunshine :3
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Hi Cute! :) How's your day going?
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good :3
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Great :D
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Oh... You never responded to any of my other questions?

(This was my reaction)

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That's right... I flipped a freakin table

Mom:put it back!!!


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Then i went to war against my brother

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I won :3

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Oh im sorry, i never saw them...
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I'm answering them right now.
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Just don't think about it, if its that bad of a situation you need to talk to someone about this. Preferably your parents.

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Forced you is a coverup so you won't face the shame of admitting it was consensual. I can see right through you like a window. So tell the truth. my nephews hate it cause I see right trough them too.

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Learn from this and other peoples mistake and realize its much better to wait til your out of highschool married or engaged and actually found someone who cares enough to wait and accept the fact you have dreams and goals in life that are very important to you and that you wanna accomplish you should stand to wait and its better to stand for something then nothing i feel alot of guys would respect the fact you stand for something and your waiting til you find the love you deserve hun plz be smart and safe and careful

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If you feel really bad about it its going to haunt you and therefore make things harder for a much more mature relationship in the future. Also if a guy is going to disrespect you drop him but just make sure you talk to your parents you may not believe this but I promise you start with your mother because she will be more calm all moms are just tell her you couldnt take the guilt anymore your only stuck in this situation right now you need to talk to your patents which will most likely lead to a doctors visit but those things are only done.because your parents care about you ......tell them

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Be ready. Unless you insisted on a condom you might be pregnant. Then youll have to tell someone.

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I did NOT have sex!!
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I did Not have sex!!!!
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Then whats all the fuss about for goodness sake? A BJ? You shouldnt have done it and you still should get tested for HIV and other STDS but at least no worries about pregnancy.
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Lol alright but yea oral to him an me
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Well, if you had intercourse and he didn't use protection then you better hurry and tell your parents and get a pregnancy test done and get tested for STDS cause even a one timer can cause these problems for you. I really hope that you have learned a lesson from this. Hurry up and get this done. Don't wait and wish it away. Stay away from him and this kind of behavior!

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You can't take it back don't feel guilty it's done. Don't b ashamed you are still the same girl, u kno wot kind of person u are this doesn't define u. Be angry tho be pissed off that he made u do things u weren't ready or comfortable doing yet! tell him that he made u feel that way and it's not cool. Also I would tell the school counsellor or an older sister/cousin.. Just for some support. Don't tell ur friends, the whole school will find out in less than 48hrs n they will label u nasty things.
find a nicer guy

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How old ru
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