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Why can't I overcome sexual sin?

there are other sins that used to commit and God helped me overcome them with no problem, but when it comes to sexual sin it gets me every time how can I overcome it. I even feel bad asking God to forgive me because I feel that he won't continue to forgive me for the same sin

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If you believe god will forgive you every time, then she will. If you believe she won't, then she won't. It's amazing how god seems to do exactly what you believe!

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Not everything in the bible should be taken literally, especially if your referring to masturbation it's perfectly healthy & natural. Don't beat yourself up!,

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It doesn't speak against anyway.
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Who does it without having lustful or unclean thoughts? I wonder.
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Is that a pun?
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You are a human being, subject to flaws and mistakes. If we were suppose to be perfect, we would have been made that way. Give yourself some slack. What you feel is natural!

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Define sexual sin

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You just want to know if its kinky.
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Dang, caught me!
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Because you are human, sexualness is natural and healthy, people start masturbating and stuff when they're like 8 years old and it will never change.

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I think the asker's looking for a real answer.
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I am not sure of the problem but it obviously bothers you. God will help you overcome anything. He needs your commitment to this as well.

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If you are doing something sexual that is with another adult, that is consensual and is not causing harm to either of you, I can't guess what would be defined as "sinful". If it is something you are doing alone, in private, that isn't causing you physical harm, I don't know what would be sinful their either. Perhaps talking to a counselor or therapist would be helpful.

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... the process of overcoming habitual sin is to change the habits that facilitate it. We have to adopt the attitude of Joseph who, when tempted by Potiphar's wife to come to bed with her, left the room so quickly that he left his cloak in her hands (Genesis 39:15). We simply must make every effort to run from the things that tempt us to sin, including access to food if we are given to overeating, and access to pornography if we are tempted to sexual sin. Jesus tells us to cut off our hand or pluck out our eye if they "offend" us (Matthew 5:29-30). This means removing from our lives anything, even those things close to us, if they tempt us to sin. In short, we have to change the habits that lead to habitual sin. (cont in comments)

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Finally, we need to immerse ourselves in the truth of the gospel. The gospel is not only the means by which we are saved, but it is also the means by which we are sanctified (Romans 16:25). If we think we are saved by grace, but sanctified by our own efforts, we fall into error (Galatians 3:1-3). Sanctification is as much a work of God as justification. The promise we have from Scripture is that he who began a good work in us will complete it on the last day (Philippians 1:6).
Read more: http://www.gotquestions.org/habitual-sin.html#ixzz2ZmdBvGsG

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What's more important to you? Your own desires or what God wants for you? Would you do these things in front of your loved ones? Members of your church? Then why do you do it before God who sees everything? If you love Him, obey Him. Ask Him for help and He will give it to you if you have faith. If you lack faith, ask Him for that too.

Strawberrys answer is great.

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Keep asking. Don't give up and soon it will be a thing of the past :)
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The sex drive is made powerful so that man will continue the race. It is made to be strongly aggressive in men, receptive in women, and thus we must find either an outlet, a spouse, or sublimate the drive. This is why it's so hard for men not to look on a woman with lust. And why women have a need to be wanted.
We are meant to struggle with this setup, and to resolve it by trusting in a loving God who knows us better than we know ourselves, and who is forgiving with sincere repentance.

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