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How to let my friend know that she is leaving me out of everything with out telling her that word for word?

My friend is leaving me from everything she does. And her memory to! She will be telling me a story and it comes to the point where I have to cut her off to say, "I know...I was there!" And she says, "Really, I didn't think you were!" Am I that forgettable?

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Well actions speak louder than words. Back off by your choosing & see if she then misses your friendship. If she doesn't miss it then you know not to waste your energy on her. If she does her behaviour may change towards you. She may secretly be jealous of you which conflicts with her friendship with you. Don't waste time on those not worthy of what you offer as a friend in support, understanding & validation of her. She may be taking you for granted & you deserve a better friend than that.

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Thank you so much! This seems like the right thing to do. I will see if she is worth it! Thanks again!
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Hope the outcome is in your favor, if not be glad you know her true colors.
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"Hey Sara, can I talk to you seriously for a minute?
I'm feeling very left out of your life.
Have I done something wrong?"

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I would just tell her how you feel honestly, she probably doesn't realize that she's doing that. So its not intentional but if you don't tell her she won't be able to know what she's doing wrong. shell understand.

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Hi uhm. This Is gonna sound weird but... don't take it like I'm jealous or anything but, i feel like You made better friends then me and your making me feel left out, Did i Do something bad? Whatever it is I'm sorry?

thats what i usually say to my friends.

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hmmmmmmmm..........seems like you are that forgettable or she is forgettable

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She sounds very self-centered.I'd ask her to get over herself.

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