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What are some good idea for staying positive. I always try to look at the bright side.. that things could be worse.

But is it hard sometimes. I recently got divorced, my EX left me with mounds of bills, trying to dig myself out has been a feet in it self... how do I stay positive and believe that things will get better? I am always on edge and worrying about money. Very stressful.

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its hard but count your blessings your better off .......that was not right of him leaving all the bills to you things happen for a reason..its going to be ok

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Hello! -)
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look at the positive aspect of everything that's happened with you.you will realize that there is no need to regret anything.Believe that everything happens for good.you will realize "money" is not everything. :)

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no money means nothing to me at all... I am not into materials.. but when you are left with mounds of bills to pay alone with one income and keep up with current bills and children, it gets hard, but I am dealing well and I know things will get better, thankfully I have a wonderful BF that helps me and is by my side.. and my children are wonderful :)
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Trials and tribulation you got to go through it to get to it

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It's good to be optimistic but it's better to be pessimistic at times. :) As they say, rejection doesn't hurt, expectation does. I mean, you dont have to be bitter about certain things. It's just that you have to be aware of the fact that there really are people who dont appreciate things you've worked hard for, whatever it may be. So that it wouldn't hurt that much in the long run. Hope it helped. Thanks.

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Benzito

If this has been a constant issue for you, maybe it also relates to your current situation. If you constantly need to look for the positive in everything in your life, maybe you're not living in the moment! Maybe you're clinically depressed. Seek professional advice.

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No, I just choose to be positive and live life smiling is all :).... I am not depressed...
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Things are already better cause he left before he could cause anymore damage to ya! So, think about that as you continue rebuilding your life and be so very happy that you don't have to put up with that loser anymore.

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first of all its not easy to not be stressed especially when we have trials at the moment what you can do is to try to re evaluate what a good person you are and why you deserve so much better dont keep it all to your self go out once in a while so you can take your mind of things and prioritize because we always say that we may not have time for everything but i say we do we just need to know when and how we are going to do it.
dont be mad at yourself because of the position you are in think about what you can do about it example if your budget is tight try finding some other way to increase your revenue whether it be during your spare time of after work make something you can sell or even you can work part time for a sales company because you can get paid to promote items.
you are alone know what you are worth search and find yourself. keeping in mind all the things you are good at .

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