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I'm in high school and I'm tired of being picked on because I'm such a tomboy what do you think I should do ? And how do I become a girly

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You don't. You are a tomboy that's who you are. If people aren't willing to accept this that's on them. I'm sure your a great person and by not accepting you for who you are they are missing out on a possibly great friendship!

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Be yourself and maybe try adding some cute tops to your wardrobe.. Just don't wear guy clothes (on a regular bases)

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Just be yourself ... Doesnt matter what everybody thinks about you ! But if you want to be a girly girl you should get your nails done or you cant just paint them , wear a little makeup , wear dresses or skirts , do your hair , maybe some curls in your hair if you like . ...... Any other questions just ask me

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you can't just change yourself, its not that easy. but it is easy to fend off idiots from picking on you. what i did when people would make fun of my name (they would call me gay bray) i just started saying "okay" or "cool" and people stopped saying stuff

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I am sorry people call u that!!
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i think you shouldnt pay attention to the people that say mean stuff to you i mean people should like you for your personality not your good looks but if you want to look girly try do were a dress a bit of make up pink lip gloss and a very cute shoe with your hair in bun with a big bow you will look amazing!!!!!and i bet some boys well even open there eyes and ask you out but remember if you dont want to... just be urself and let the haters hate because they probably think ur pretty so they pick on you just because the feel like shit

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You should be yourself!! If u want to become a girly girl then here are a few starters: ( I now what to do bc my best friend was a total tomboy and changed)
1. Buy a couple cute fancy tops
2. Use a light colored eyeshadow and some pink lip stick
3. Buy a pair of flats and some other cute shoes u like
4. Curl up ur hair
5. Buy a few dresses and skirts
6. Get and wear dangly earrings
7. NEVER WEAR GUY CLOTHES
8. Get some cute jeans
9. get your nails done or do them yourself
10. Gradually increase the amount of makeup u wear
Ask me if u have any other questions!!!

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You are who you are, don't try dressing like a boy. Jeans are fine but try to pair them with some cute tops. Don't know how you wear your hair, but at least keep it neat. Wear earrings, nothing flashy , keep it simple

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First off, be happy with who you are. If you are a tomboy, than GREAT embrace you inner tomboyness:) but if you really really really want to change how you look than follow these instructions:),
1. never wear tshirts. always put on something cute, like a pink or purple blouse.

2. Always wear make-up out in public. make-up makes you look like you actually take care of yourself. Like lip gloss, eyeshadow, and mascara. If you wanna put on eye liner you can, but sometimes if you put to much on, it starts to look trashy:)

3. Your attitude is apart of it too. Try to be flirtatious. and flirt with boys.But dont be annoying. guys dont like annoying girls.

Remember, embrace who you are, you are who you are for a reason, and DON'T CHANGE just because people make fun of you, people are jerks! haha good luck girl:)!

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Skinny jeans. With converse or vans cute sexy tops make ur hair really nice have a bubbly personality smile and flirt but don't like quit sports or getting dirty guys love when girls r noth

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Hey, I feel for you, i am the leader of my crew and many of my friends get teased because they are smarter than your average teen. If you are upset with how you are then those who tease you will have won. I am in high school and I know how it feels. Just stick with your friends and you'll be fine. If you still want that make-over than just ask one of your friends. Usually friends will do a lot for their crew, so I think they would be more than happy to help. Sorry but that's all that I can honestly say, don't change 'you' just because people tease you, ok? : ) Good luck!

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I think they should accept you for who you are. You like dressing like that then do not change just because of other people.. Who care's what others think you are happy with that style that is what matters the most..

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It's okay to be yourself.God made you for who you are and not somebody else. Just ignore them. They obviously are to insecure about themselves.

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you still with this Dylan guy?
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Not really, we haven't talked in a few months.
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In MONTHS? was he your boyfriend?
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Yes he was.
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oh that's sad... that he left, neglected you like that. How are you doing now?
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I am fine, great actually. How are you?
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I'm good... my girlfriend cheated on me a month ago... still recovering haha.. :P

I know you from before... I mean, I've seen you a lot before here. :)
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Haha so about you ex. Hahaha really?
:)
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Yeah.. she fcked the guy a within a week after she did..

and uhm yeah... :P mmm... wanna be e-mail buddies?
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Haha immature bitches. :P haha sure
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put it on your profile.. I'll hit you up when I get it so you can remove it then..
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But I won't be able to talk until tonight...
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surely.. :P do you flirt around with guys a lot?
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Well it depends on if I like the guy.. Why?
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I wanted to maybe flirt with you... but if you're one to flirt with everyone... mmmm :P haha
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Are you saying that I flirt alot?
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I was just asking.. I'm pretty honest with my approach, pretty blunt and I don't mean to offend you. I just wanna try it out and hopefully not get cheated upon again.. maybe... this time.. I hope..
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I am the same way too. But honestly I don't even know your age or your real name. So it just depends
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Oh my name's Arun.. and I'm pretty old.. hahaha what's your name?
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I want someone mature enough to deal with me :P haha I'm pretty weird..
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I am only 15.
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I'm 23... is that too much of an age gap for you?
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8 years difference. I honestly don't know what to tell you
Sorry I sound like a douche
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I'll take that as "yeah, that's too much". I don't mind.. haha... I get judged like that a lot...kinda used to it now.
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Noo I am not judging you. You seem pretty cool but I have gotten into a lot of trouble before with a guy your age. Not saying that all guys are trouble. I am sorry I feel really bad
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all you need to do is be your self. who cares what others think. their opinion shouldn't matter because you are you and no one else. stay strong and if you want to be girly wear a little less tom boyish clothing. like instead of jeans and a tshirt everyday wear jeans with cute flats and a nice flowy top that describes your inner girly self :)

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This may sound weird to you or even out of your league. Try watching an adult film that caters to a specific genre like, men to men. if you find it offensive and reacts immediately, then you're a girl. one day, you'll bloom like a swan-lady. at least my aunt did, many many eons ago!

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I'm picked on for the same reason. But if you show your spunk and attitude they'll take it back; keep faith in yourself.

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