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my daughter was not home at curfew of 12. still not home at 3 witha friend when she was told to be alone. what should her consequences be?

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I would just make her curfew even earlier than it is now. Then tell her if she comes home at that time like she's suppose to for a while, then you'll extend it back to where it was. If she again disobeys then punish her. Let her know that she was given a chance and not this is a one time thing but I'm going to ground you anyways.

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Every time she's late, make her curfew an hour earlier.

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dont ley her. go out again for anoyher month and when she is allow again shorten it to 10...as she shows more responsibility, raise it

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Make her curfew 10 or 11. If she disobeys, Take away something she really likes. Like her phone or something

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Go to her school in a bathrobe, wearing like horrbile clown makeup and be like yes im here to pick up "your daughter name here" and make her embarrassed

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You don't go into the child's classroom at all, this isn't a movie. ._. They call over the intercom and then the child comes out to meet their parents no one in the class room sees unless they happen to be switching classes at the moment. And even then her class will only see you if their classroom is located in the front part of the building.
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Make it clear to her why she has a curfew. Then, take away anything that connects her to the outside world so she understands what would happen if she is late again. I'm a teenager and taking away things like that makes me nuts.

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Disappear all electronics including phone, tablets, TV, music device etc. for a certain time and make her earn them back with good behavior. AND ground her from social events.

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Who cares! Let her enjoy herself. If she is 15 or older, let her be.

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You must be a teenager.
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That was uncalled for.
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