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how do you get over a boyfriend you were with for 2 years?

he comes to ever family party an my family accepted him as part of the family but now were breaking up an I just don't know how to get over him. he helped me through so much an was a big part of my life an daily routine. how do I get over him?

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Hi, Juliana. Honey, I'm so very sorry you're going through this. Two years is a long time to be with someone & especially when they're involved with your family. With the family liking him & he going to family functions & being a part of all that, it makes it worse because every time you get together, you think of him, too, even there. Well, you really don't get over someone you love. You just have to let time take care of things. You have to let yourself mourn your loss (but not to the point you can't or won't do anything else). You do need to get out with your friends & start to do other things; make a new life for yourself because that's what he'll do. I'm not saying it will be easy & at first you have to make yourself. If you're a Christian, learn to lean on the Lord: if not, learn to lean more on your friends. You CAN get through this, but nobody said it would be easy. Just tell yourself, "I've got to start a new life & I know I can do it." Don't ever lean on one person to make you happy because they won't always be there, sweetheart. I hope you start feeling better soon.

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nicely stated, compassionate and right on.
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Beautiful words my friend! :0)
Stars most definitely!
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@bringonthebrain
Thank you so much. That is very sweet of you o say.
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@yin.
You always make me feel so good, honey, and thank you for the stars!!!.
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Find a new one.

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You don't. You have to get "through" it! And for that you need time...... it will get easier Sweetheart eventually.

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1. talk about him with someone you trust. 2. dont think about him as your bf. 3. get use to him as friend. Dont take any step before being ready except maybe the frst one. Pray to God. Gby

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