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Is it cheating if I go to the movies with this girl who is a friend? Even though I am in a relationship with another girl. But is it cheating? Because my friend who is a girl wants to hangout with me, but I am not sure. Can I?

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thelostone97, it's not cheating, but your current girlfriend might get upset.
My suggestion is invite her. Your current girlfriend.
Tell her your friend wants to hang out, so let's go hang out with her.
If you do it behind her back, I guarantee it will start a fight.
Especially if the two of you are younger.

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CJ, I hope the move goes well for you and that everything settles down and you find contentment.
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Thank you very much Taise.
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I would not consider it cheating if you went out with your friend who is a girl, but I'm afraid your current girlfriend might not see it that way. Unless she is a very understanding girl, she is most likely going to make you sweat over it.

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No, it's not cheating, she's just a friend.

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Ask your girlfriend. If she has a problem with it I think you may need to think if this trip to the movies is worth it. Plus if she is out of the loop it is very disrespectful to her. How do you feel if she goes to a movie with a male friend..... a lot of things to think of and answer which we on ask.com can not answer for you. :0)

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If she is just a friend then it's okay; its not cheating. But it might be best to give your girlfriend a heads up before so there won't be any conflict.

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Be open about this. Take your girlfriend along so she can see how you interact (non-romantic) with your friend.

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Technically it's not cheating if there are no romantic feelings between you and your female friend. Technically. But much of life is perception - your gf might not see it that way - just reverse the situation - if your gf wanted to go to the movies with a guy friend - how would you feel? See what I mean?

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Good way to word it-gee, I wonder if I have to type out your whole username each time I comment on your answers...call you Bro? Still thinking about it...
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Thank you cerebrogasm.
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Spit: just type "C:" - that's what I do when the screen name is long.
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If you aren't sure, don't do it. If it wasn't bad you wouldn't be un-sure.

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If you wouldn't want your girlfriend doing it to you then I consider it cheating, so it's basically your judgment.

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its not cheating.. but I think it will make your GF feel uncomfortable and it really isn't worth that in the long run...

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Its not cheating. Sometimes you need a break. I think its fine.

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It is not cheating. But just think about it, would you like it if your girlfriend went out to the movies with her guy friend? Never do something you wouldn't want her to do.

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Well I think you should Invite your girlfriend along too

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It's not cheating but you should probably let your girlfriend know about stuff like that so she doesn't think you're cheating.

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