Is my decision good or bad? how long do you think it will last? does it make me selfish and mean? (read description) HELP!!! HELP!!!
so i broke up with my boy friend and since then i have decided not to date during my junior and senior year. i feel like i have had way too many bad experiences in the 15 years of my life and i should stop take a break, and the next i guy i go out with would be the one for me. so sooo many guys have asked me out and i have said no to every single one of them and i cant believe how arrogant they were i mean there were 2 responses that i got from them either "excuse me?" or "hell no!" as if they thought i would be like yes!! i love you or something, if that's not arrogance than i dont know what to call it. a lot of them sent their ex gf to me to convince me one of them was my friend and she was crying she said he broke up with her cuz of me and she said i should say yes to him cuz if he is happy then she is happy, the more reason to say no. so far i see this decision as good. But then my friends say that its mean of me to break so many guys hearts and that im selfish to not to say yes cuz im afraid to get hurt again. i mean its kind of true but then what am i suppose to do? (plus then that means i wont be able to go to prom. should i go alone with friends? or no?)