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I need advice. what can i do to try and make sure she loves me and me alone? i assume she is cheating one me..

My girl knows one of my biggest things about relationships is 'no secrets'. I can let small secrets go and not worry about them, but when its something that nearly proves she is cheating on me..doesn't that seem suspicious?
She once admit that she has cheated in relationships before and said she wouldn't do it again but i'm pretty sure she is cheating on me with one of her girl friends. I feel like she is doing it cuz she can knowing i won't be the one to leave due to the fact that i DO love her and will do anything to keep her in my life..

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If you accuse her, snoop and act like a jealous, possessive, insecure jerk, if she doesn't want to cheat now, she will soon enough. Just ask her what you want to know. If you don't have trust in your relationship, you need to learn how to build it or move on. The other choice is to live in suspicion and doubt. Who wants to live like that?

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Excellent! I take back the benefit of the doubt thing!
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see if she give u her phone and all of her password

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maybe you are just insecure. What would make you positive she is cheating on you and still want to stay in the relationship if she has done this before?

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i am insecure =(
but she went to the point of blocking me on one of her facebook accounts only for me to find one of her friends posting about her missing my girl and "Tho i admit that imma be a lil scared to try to kiss you but what happens happens". Also my girl and i can be cuddling and then when she gets a text she will pull away to reply or will delete the message immediatly and it seems like she is hiding something. She takes my phone when a friend texts me and we are together so she can tell them 'he is mine right now, leave us alone' but she wont let me tell her guy friends 'she is spending time with her boyfriend right now, she will text u later'
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Ask for her passwords and when she goes to sleep check. If she erased stuff then you know something's up.

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If your having "sex" with opposite sex or same sex, it is still cheating! If you think otherwise, then you have a warped sense of how a relationship works!...as for the OP, you should get a dang mini camera & set it up somewhere she won't expect!

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Weird

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If you can't trust them, you don't need them. If she's cheating on you and you keep her around knowing that she's doing it then your doing exactly what she wants. She thinks your a fool and will keep on playing you. End it and move on if you can't trust her.

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don't snoop or anything then she will probably break up with you just ask her and her friends

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For heavens sakes, leave this girl! She doesn't love you. She's using you as a means of having regular s$x. The fact she answers a text while cuddling and then deletes it, should be the wake up call to get out of this warped relationship.

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