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Is it ok to hang out with a 19 year old when I'm 16?

my friend says its weird that he's talking to someone 3 years younger than him and keeps asking me to come over to his house, but I don't see it. someone please tell me if its weird or not

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Come over for what? If it's gonna be just the two of you and for no particularly good, legit reason then I can see how that can be weird.

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Well he doesn't say he just asks if I could come over and maybe sleep over. She thinks its weird since he's been to jail and does drugs, but he is a super nice guy.
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Age doesn't matter. When I was 14, I had 16-19 year old friends. There's nothing wrong with it.

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You could be headed for trouble. A 19 man had no business asking a 16 year old girl over to his house. He is out for the one thing all men want from women. Are you prepared to give it to him? You enter his house alone and he may take what he wants. Think very hard before you act. You may end up is a situation your not prepared for.

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3 Year difference isn't that bad, besides older guys are more mature, you don't want to date a little 15 year old boy -__-

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Let's go ahead and be honest: going to a 19 year old man's house is probably not the best idea for a 16 year old girl, and let's also be honest about the only reason he wants you to come over there. Like another user said earlier, are you prepared to give it to him? I'm a 16 year old girl too, and I'm going to admit I'm hard headed. In your situation, I'd probably be over his house faster than you can snap your fingers. I'm a risk taking girl who's always making bad decisions, and using "you only live once" as an excuse. For safety reasons it's not a good idea at all, you have NO idea what he's going to do to you once he gets you inside of his house. But let's face it, it's a 19 year old boy and you're 16 years old, it's like a once in a lifetime chance to be with someone who's a bit more mature than most of the guys your age probably are! Give it some serious thought, and make the decision based on what's right for you. Have fun ;D

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Hmm I don't know hanging out with a older guy who can easily over power you. I don't think you should be hanging out with him since I saw your comment about jail and drugs that's something you don't want to be apart of

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