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Theres this girl. We've known each other since middle school, and aside from now going to the same high school, we also go to the same church. I really like her, and by the way she used to act I think she likes or at one point liked me the same way. I asked her out, and she said she had a boyfriend. Then after she started coming around me more.

Fast foforward couple weeks. I heard her talking, she said how long this guy has been her boyfriend. I did the math in my head, and it added up to after I asked her out. I got on her myMySpaceage (yeah she still gets on there) and from the looks of things her and this guy were hanging out as friends first. But if they we're just friends at the time, they couldn't have been boyfriend girlfriend, and she should have been able to go out.

I told A close friend about everything, and they said she was probably leading me on, and only came around more for attention because she knew then that I was interested. I'm sadly starting to believe that. What do you think?

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You asked for brutal honest. Here it is. WHY are you creeping on her? She obviously doesn't want to date you, leave it alone. If you feel like you're being used, stop allowing it to happen. Walk away, the girl doesn't like you that way.

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Maybe she wasn't ready for a relationship you should try again :)

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Maybe at the time, she and her friend were basically "dating without the title of dating", or maybe she got the math wrong. Maybe she's having second thoughts. There are a bunch of maybe's because we can't really know what's going on in her mind.

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who the hell still uses MySpace lol

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There are many things wrong with this. Maybe she got the timing wrong. Maybe they were "talking", basically unofficially dating. Maybe she liked both of you but liked him more or something of that sort. Maybe she only wants to be friends. There are a bunch of possibilities but honestly, I would let her come to me if I was you. Because of the fact that you're not certain if she likes you AND she has a boyfriend so you don't know when she will be available again, I would give it a month or two. During that time you should be kind, maybe exchange phone numbers and get to know more about her, but not in the way that makes you look like you like her.

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I am guessing she was probably friends with this other dude.. but they were leading up to BF/GF status.. so she in turn wouldn't date you... this would prove to be a good trait of hers.. meaning she is trustworthy :) I would leave her bee, as it seems she is happy with her current BF.

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Maybe she liked the guy who is now her bf. Girls are complicated, and really only want that one guy. If she did like the guy she is dating now, that's why she said no to you.

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I have a feeling that she wasn't lying, maybe she just didn't happen to put any thing that screamed she was dating the guy. you need to be patient and wait for there relationship to fizzle out then give her some time and male your move again.

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I have no idea, but that is kinda of stalker-ish...

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