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How to deal with my daughter boyfriend he is a looser and he just spit at her face ? Plz help :( it is affecting me more than her

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Your daughter must have extremely low self esteem in order to let someone spit in her face. She needs to see a therapist to help her with that and whatever other issues she might have. If he does that in front of you he must also be physically and mentally abusive. Convince her to get away from him. She deserves way better than him.

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Where is he? If I'm anywhere close I will take care of his sorry butt!! Your daughter needs to understand that, that is not the way men treat women!! She deserves better and needs to stand up for herself. You stand for something or you stand for nothing! Let me know

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You are da man.
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Thanks I have three daughters and have taught them to be able to make it on their own, they don't need to depend on anyone. I think we have lost the "gentlemen" of this new generation, very sad. But if one of my daughters told me one of their boyfriends did this, he wouldn't be able to functionally say he was sorry, due to his little thingy ripped off and shoved down his mouthy throat. Ok I'm done with my rant ;)
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Yes!
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Hi, thank you for your advice. My daughter doesn't live with me. She's 18 and lives in van nuys with her sorry excuse for a boyfriend. I've tried talking some sense in to her before, but she doesn't listen. I feel hopeless because I can't do anything while she's over there.
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you can't do anything, she thinks she is grown, and if she won't do anything about it, then she can't be helped.

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I would tell her to break up with him because he seems to not care about her.

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Why and how did you not clean his clock for doing that? don't allow him in your house and remind your daughter that if she's living in your house she needs to live by your rulea and tell her rule 1 is not.dating anyone who treats her like that pos

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Seriously!!
If any guy would spit at MY daughter, I'd still be kicking his @$$!!
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me too. that little punk a$$ wouldn't have remembered anything until he woke up in the hospital with his jaw wired shut
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How old is your daughter? If she's under 18 and living in your house, then you can forbid him from coming over. Otherwise, there's not much you can do.

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You take him hunting in the woods and only take one shotgun to save money. Very far out where no one can hear. Haha I'm just playing around but seriously you need to show that kid who's boss by having a conversation with him. Make sure you use the words "you are crossing the line by ______. And _______ ect.

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I think the woods thing would work better. He might have a hearing problem, guys like that usually do.
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Haha I agree
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slap the F out of that jackass

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Let him know if he did that to a stranger he could be arrested for assault. Then let him know he will be arrested if he ever does that or ever lays a hand on her again. Your daughter needs a serious, serious wake up call about this guy. He is going to escalate his behavior because he has no boundaries at all. To do this and do it in front of YOU speaks volumes. Help her

http://m.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence

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Hi ya! Kick that looser out! Of her life try to set he up with someone ! That will treat her like a queen!

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All I can say is he probably would've loss some teeth after spitting in my daughter's face!!! And for him to do that in front of you shows he has no respect for neither of you. Your daughter is in a controlling, abusive relationship && needs to get out of it asap!
He could be threatening her when you're not around. Talk to her alone && let her know that she can confide in you. Save your daughter even if you have to get the authorities involved.

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