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I'm really stressed about school! Help please?

Im going to be a sophomore this year. Im angry because every year my grades are always failing no matter how hard I try to bring them up. I'm terrified of people and hate being around the other students. Really bad embarrassing stuff always happens to me too. I get all the bad luck. School is too much for me to handle. And I'm having really bad panic attacks because I'm so scared and upset about going back to school. I almost feel like killing myself. What can I do?

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Brownie! I never want to hear you say anything about killing yourself EVER AGAIN!!! In the short time I have known you, I have learned that you have a beautiful soul. This world needs more people like you, not less! I understand you have anxiety issues at times. Don't we all! Stop, take a deep breath, and believe in yourself. If an on-line education suits you better, then take that path. There are alternatives to all situations. God, how we would miss you! Just quit it!

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Nice answer. I just got word you were back.
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The word? Really? I was trying to be sneaky! Alright, who blew the whistle?!
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Hondo, that was so unbelievably touching! And that was honestly one of the bests answer I've ever gotten from anybody. You don't know how much better i feel now. Thank you so much for always being there for me
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Hondo's an awesome man.
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Brownie is an awesome girl! Kiddo, I will always be here for you, when you need a friend.
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And craigsmom, that is such a nice thing for you to say! Do you mind if I follow you?
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Wow, your comment was way delayed, Hondo.
Yes, the word. Well, you can probably guess, I suspect.
Wow, I've seen eight removals, Hondo. You're on a lucky streak! --_--
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Well, it's so true, Hondo, and I'm finding that out more and more. : )
Oh, you're funny . I'll mind if you UNfollow me!
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Do not kill yourself. I know that school is hard for you but, you could be in a lot worse situation. You only have 3 years of school ( if you want) and you never have to go back. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. :)

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Thank you, that made me feel much better :)
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Peace ?
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What? I have already told you like 3 times that peace is fine. Are you not getting my othere responses?
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No, the Activity box is messed up ! I'm not getting any notifications ! Not any ! Sorry !
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Same with mine! Its fine:)
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I just got yours ! First one in a few days ! That's great ! You're a good guy !
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GIRL!!!! I am a GIRL:)
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Oh geez ! I blew it again ! I just got this notification ! I'm sorry ! Hope you forgive me young lady ?
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Thats okay:) Why does everyone think im a guy?
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Maybe because you kind of come on strong ? Beats the chit outta me !
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I cant help it....
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Well, you might try talking to your Parents about a private school or having tutors come by your home and be homeschooled ! You're getting close to being done with school ! Talk to your parents and see what you can work out ! Killing yourself over school is not even a good thought and not a Christian option. Talk ! You can work it out with them ! Good Luck !

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I just left a long,heart felt answer,and it was pulled.
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Thanks for the advice MJW!
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And Doc, I'm really disappointed. I really wanted to read your answer :(
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You will be alright,don't psych yourself out.Why harm yourself when you could harm others?
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First of all, stop all of the negative talk. I know you had to share your situation here, but try to put the negativity behind you now. If you really are feeling suicidal tell your family, or call a help line. A new school year can mean a new start for you. I struggled in grade school, but started to shine in high school and there is no reason that same thing can't happen for you. Go to the library and get a self-help book or a tape that will encourage you and help you to focus upon your potential. Find a good teacher or a counselor who will listen and make some helpful suggestions. Find out if there are tutors or an afterschool program in your school or your community that will help you to get more out of your classwork.

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Nice reply!
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School is hard for everyone I'll take everyones advice

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Well a lot of the reasons that students don't really do well in school is organization issues where they might not find stuff. In the next year try to be organized.

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BrownSandcastle,most of us have been what you are going through today when we were at school.In fact I finished with school 3 years ago and my last two were probably the most horrible years in my life.I hated the thought of getting up and having to deal with everyone and everything.My grades were suffering and everyone was disappointed in me and most of all my father.I started suffering from bad panic attacks and always carried a paper bag to breathe into.I hated myself.So I told my mom I wanted to be home schooled but she refused and my drama continued It took one special teacher and fellow student to help change all that.They both spent hour after hour talking to me and helped me realize that I am just as good as everyone else if not better.It took a while but I got there Brown and so can you.
Never give up and never think of hurting yourself again because when you get there you will see how much you would have missed out on.My partner says that to me everyday.

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That answer was really inspiring and gave me hope. Not only that, but when I remember what you told me, it will motivate me to continue my everyday life and deal with school. It means alot to me that you gave me such an honest and helpful answer. Now i will really try my best in school and stay positive. Thank you so much! That was really kind :)
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Do not hesitate to find me Brown should you ever need me.I could sit here and write to you all the things they said to me to help me through this but you will get bored but trust me if I managed to get through it(and my situation was much worse because I had the bullies as well)so could you.
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Hey! You can handle this. You've got people here who believe in you. You can do whatever you put your mind to. If things get a little tough now and then, remember that there are others in the same boat. The difference is, you've got us pulling for you and believing in you. Just dig in and deal with it because I know that you can.

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Thank you so much for the motivation! It really helped
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You're welcome, and you WILL be fine. Just give it your best.
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music makes me better. and you can study.i never really was good on grades. im fine at language arts. but its always the homework that gets me bad grade. like we go to school for 8 hours, then get handed homework. isn't 8 hours of school work enough? well to make homework funner, you can listen to your faverite songs and do your homework at the same time. your school sounds like my old school. everyone always pushed me around, laughed at me. i hated that school.try to avoid them. i usually picked the table with the least kids at lunch. dont listen to the kids. act like they're not even there,mabey.think happy thoughts. with helpful people on here,me,music and hope and stregnth, you can make it through.

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Thank you very much shadow! That made me feel a lot better about going to school now ^_^
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your welcome
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