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dogsgotoschool: 2 years ago

What advice can you give me i dont have a job and i dont go to school i cant take life anymore ?

im so lonely i have no friends and im only 19. after i graduated high school i just stay at home every day and wake up at noon .

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hharpe03: 2 years ago

The best advice to give you is to GET OUT! Go enjoy the world! Perhaps, start talking to people online like Facebook, find old friends and make plans to hang out with them. It will just get worse the more you seclude yourself. If it keeps persisting, you should seek counseling.
But look at what you DO have! You graduated High School, your young and have a lot going for you. Enroll into college and/or get part-time job to help you get involved with the rest of the world again. :)

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dogsgotoschool: 2 years ago

i never had friends to begin with and although a positive perspective on things would help me i am just not a positive person no matter how hard i try to be.
although thank you for taking time out to answering my question.

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TheMachine: 2 years ago

Do things for other people. Volunteer. Look outside yourself. Help people.

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dogsgotoschool: 2 years ago

i dont have any opportunities to do volunteer work.
although thank you for answering my question.

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highhopes: 2 years ago via iPhone

You should definately look for a job instead of sleeping til noon. Go to bed early, get up early and search jobs online. Searching for work will keep you occupied. Schedule interviews for mid morning. I have noticed it seems like people who get up early are happier and successful. When you find that job you will meet new friends. Even just going for a walk can help to make you feel better too.

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dogsgotoschool: 2 years ago

thank you for the advice this was helpful.

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CougarsCraveMe: 2 years ago via iPhone

You're just real lazy. I've been exactly where you are, it's weird, it's as if I'm talking to my old self right now.

Routine is important in becoming mentally stronger. Wake up at a set time and start working out. If Nobody is there to motivate you to get up, you need to find it in yourself.

You're an extraordinary piece of work and are here for a reason. I suggest a high adrenaline sport (Rock climbing dirt biking bungee jumping snowmobiling) do something you would never think you could. Cheers

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dogsgotoschool: 2 years ago

thank you for your answer. although i cant do extreme sports because im a girl and im terrified of that kind of stuff. i see what you are trying to say a routine is important.
its just that i cant find a job no matter how hard i try and im giving up on finding one.

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