Your asking a question that women spend countless hours each week to be their very best outwardly and us guys may have to spend an hour a month. Do yourself some good and learn the better way to eat so maintaining weight comes naturally. Now if your trying to be marketable to girls then start noticing them for all their time spent. They will size you up but they won't turn down a polite earnest compliment. Everyone in the day may make them feel ugh! Meanwhile, when they see you they know you have nice things to say. Think what you can offer someone and not what you can get in return.
And maybe if you worked out just get your weight to average weight by quitting soda, eating healthy and exercising 3 times a week and always check your weight on a scale in the morning before you eat anything
Are you muscular?? Muscle weighs more than fat. Women like personality most... Looks will fade. Any woman who would pick the hot guy over the personality is not worth your time. You should want to lose weight for you not to impress anyone else.