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do girls tend to like more a guy that's good looking but a horrible personality OR an ugly guy with a great personality?

personally I think I'm right in the middle, ima decent looking guy and I like working out and ima pretty chill guy BUT it seems like girls want the super hot guy BUT treat them like trash kinda guys better, the bad boy traits I suppose

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Girls like the hot guys...women like a real man: caring, faithful, committed, respectful, reliable and if he's good looking, that's a bonus. 8)

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HeatherSyl
You are right on. But I couldn't resist having a little fun with the question.
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Money is a bigger bonus. Everyone loves money. 8) And I love that song too!
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Different girls out there with different thoughts !
If a girl likes to be treated like a trash, then apologizes for the trash !!

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HeatherSyl

Either one..... Money talks!
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http://youtu.be/W25_jgiY51I

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we just like the hot guys.. well because they're hot.. and if we date them other girls will be jealous of that girl.. so basically dating a hot guy with no personality is all for the attention... but also SOME girls won't date ugly guys, even if they are the best guy in the world, because of what other people will think, which is dumb, but that's how some people are.. but that's not always the case and not all girls are like that.. some do just date for the personality

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hah girls are complicated :3
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yes we are
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I honestly think it should be equal. :o

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that's what I'm saying lol I'm right in the middle in my opinion
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It all depends

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As a girl myself, I am usually attracted by someone handsome, but after having a conversation, my hopes fade because their personality is weak. Honestly, I look out for personalities because can you help the way you look like? You a born with your body, you are born with your eye color, and you are born with your natural hair color. If I find someone who is not the best hair style, weird birth mark or deformed nose or any part of the body, I won't judge a person by that. If they have like shirts that say bad things, or stuff like that, I will Judge by that because it has something to do with there personality. Basically, it depends on what kind of looks your talking about, but I don't care if someone is ugly if they have a great personality

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Well, i personally like ugly guys with a good personality. I get made fun of for being so pretty but liking the most unattractive guys. However, the majority of girls care more about looks than personality though

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Most girls go for handsome instead of well-built, athletic, smart and nice looking. Those girls are mostly easy to and as my mom says used.

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Girls like good looking guys, but when they find out he's a douche they usually break it off.

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Girls want a bad boy who will be good just for her and boys want a good girl who will be bad just for him

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If you're in high school, go for the looks if you can

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Adriiam

Somewhere in the middle. You don't wanna be around a guy whose annoying and doesn't have a good personality, but you don't wanna be around a guy who has no good features either.

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girls and guys tend to go for others who are good-looking, because that's what they notice first. when you're in public you don't go "hey look at that person, they must have a nice personality". Buuuuuuut if you start talking to someone good-looking and they're a jerk, then you won't like them. Anyways, a good-looking person with a good personality is always good. An ugly person with an ugly personality is always bad. A ugly person with a good personality still has a chance once you get to know them

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It depends on the female.

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Well for me I would say you should just do your own thing I mean don't change for someone else and if that person doesn't except you then find another

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Girls get attracted by your looks, they fall in love with your personality .
personality + Looks = Perfect

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Before you even begin to look, you should remember that all girls are different. Some prefer hot, some prefer sweet. But most girls want a guy that will treat her like the most important girl in the world, even if she knows she's the least important one. She wants a shoulder to cry on, a pair of arms wrapped around her when she feels lonely; but she also wants someone who can be fun when he wants to. You should also remember that "bigger" girls can be the best girlfriends to have, because they have bigger hearts. Personally: I am a junior in high school. My boyfriend isn't exactly the hottest guy in school, but he has a good heart. When we met, I was one of the only TWO friends he had. We have now been together for 8 months.

I hope this is helpful to you. :)

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Depends on the girl. In high school, for whatever reason, girls prefer "good looking" jerks. I'm a girl in high school and I will honestly say looks matter but it's not everything. I would rather go out with a bad looking guy with a nice personality than a good looking guy with a bad personality. Hope this helps :)

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how about good looking with great personality

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Personality comes first for me!! Good looking does factor in, every girl likes to keep up her "image" but overall your quality traits and personality are priority. Common interests is definitely a must!

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one of the best answers so far
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Haha, thanks! Glad to help!
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It depends on the girl. Healthy relationships start off with you both having the same interests. Also some girls like a sense of humor and good personality as mentioned before.

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ok, so my opinion on this is simple: I am a female I like nice guys most girls go for hot guys and expect for their heart not to be broken which is quite complex. but some girls just want a guy who has looks but wants to cuddle rather than get im her pants ad be a macho man if u will

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I certainly prefer guys that aren't so good looking but have a great personality. In fact, in all cases, I look at personality first

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Personally a girl that is not stuck up will go for the guy with bad looks and a good personality, but a stuck up girl will go with the opposite a good looking guy with a horrible personality.

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depends on the girl

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As a girl myself i think that a girl would love to have both a boy who is good looking but yet still caring.. but in the end it depends on the girl!:)

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Ikr, girls are too complicated :3
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when my bf and i got together, it was purley his personality... but like 6 months later he GOT HOT! so im lucky. but if a guys mean to me, it doesnt matter what he looks like, hes out. just be nice and real. good luck

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Girls like who they like... But personally if you really get to know the guy the ugly guy would be the better option for me

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Um... it depends on the girl, for the most part girls tend to go for the hot guys but that's only if they are the preppy kind who dont really get to know people... like the stereo typical dumb blond.
Meanwhile the Girls who tend to dress in black/dark clothing or the ones who aren't very "popular" or at least that not "good popular" and typically the girls who aren't judgmental over guy's appearances. I guess you could say they tend to prefer guys who are more average.
But every girl would prefer a hot guy with a good personality... even I would agree with that.

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They like the hot guys. as the guys like the hot girls (GUILTY AS CHARGED)

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