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superemokid07

Who can tell me why girls want bad boys?

Im wondering because im a nice guys but most girls want bad boys why is that?

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Because they're girls ... women want a real man.

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Boys are bad. You're right, you have to find a good man. That's why kids shouldn't get involved do young.
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wow for once i like ur answer! good job! agreed!
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Because their parents dont like us

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superemokid07
thats stupid still
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100% Correct! I love doing that and bad boys are exciting!
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superemokid07
wow that stupid nice guys can be exciting to
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Aw i know. But nice is not always the answer. I like guys with an attitude.
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Um who are you calling a bitch?
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OK I was about to go off on you.
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i go for the nice guys.
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superemokid07
That's good that you go for nice guys
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Cause they are all crazy

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i mean i would rather have a sweet girlt hen one that treats me like crap and thats what most bad boys do treat girls like crap
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Not all. Some just have a bad attitude around their friends and when the girl is alone with the guy then they are the sweetiest.
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superemokid07
um no they want you to thinkt hat so they can get your pants
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Yea you seem to do that alot.
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What? Who are you talking to? I'm a girl!
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yes we are crazy but Jen thats some bullish if a guy has a bad attitude towards u infront of his friends hes a jerk..he should be sweet to u nd treat u right all the time..
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I don't. How about a normal nice guy that is crazy? That's my preference.

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That could be ok. But what about excitment?
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Excitement? Like what, seeing him get arrested? Yea, that's real exciting!
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Haha I like seeing people get arrested no I'm joking I mean like a normal-ish funny guy but not to normal idk it's hard to explain how about a somewhat weird guy that is sorta normal and funny?
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Because they're too immature to know better.

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superemokid07
thanks and im a nice guy but girls dont care at all so i miss out on everything:(
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I don't like your answer. I'm 16 and yea i go for the bad guys But i'm also muture.
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superemokid07
why tho thats stupid jen bad boys are not cool cuz all they want to do is have sex thats it
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candybar
It's mature.
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OH WELL! I'll spell however i want!
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Obv not mature ^
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Back off i'm having a bad day. Didn't your mom tell you not to mess with a 16 year old girl when she's in a bad mood.
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candybar
And you call that mature??
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Leave me alone!!!! Your acting like a stuck up little B*I*T*C*H! And yea i just called you a dog. Have a nice day:)
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Like I originally said, because they are too immature to know better. :)
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Go suck one.
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I didn't mean you Hotestchic
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Thanks:/
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Jen, bad boys only want sex, and when u get pregnant they wont be there to help you. Nice guys will help you cuz they care about you. not cuz of sex.
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they dont really know what they want!

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superemokid07
well it stupid cuz im a nice guy and girls chose bad boys over me
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I told you you'll find a nice girl one day. Just chill out and wait.
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we want excitement in our lives that's why

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superemokid07
nice guys can give excitement to
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Depends on the guy.
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superemokid07
a nice guy can have fun trust me
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none have shown me
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superemokid07
if you hung out with me we would havefun trust me
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most of my friends are nice guys and not the bad ya i amit we have fun just not the fun im lookin for in dating ways
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superemokid07
wow your going to have fun with bad boys then cuz they will treat you like $h**
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no they wont cause they know what it is if they do that im a nice person till you do me wrong
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excitement?! what kind of excitement does a bad boy give u that a good man cant...who wants a boy when u can have a real "good" man!?
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Because they have a dangerous thing about them that makes you want more. Kinda gives you a head rush:)

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superemokid07
well ill never find the right girl then
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Yes you will.
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superemokid07
im done
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superemokid07
well i am
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super ull find someone not all us girls want a bad boy!
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because they are very interesting to figure out... not all of us want a boring guy ya know

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superemokid07
what ima nice sweet guy but know how to have fun not all nice guys are boring my friend chrstopher is a nice guy and he has alot of fun but bak o topic not all nice guys are boring
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Yea i know cuz you deffiently aint boring b/c if you were i wouldn't talk to you.:) feel better?
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Um your a chic. Your NOT suppose to say that to other chics.
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Freak
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superemokid07
jend ont judge her
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Omg!!
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superemokid07
What did you say omg for
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just my reaction to what they where saying
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superemokid07
Lol I know right :)
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Haha yeah..
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wisebuff

Its a phase. Untill they get cheated on numerous times or hit and mentally abused, then they come to and realize its not worth it. Or the bad boy is also a loser that cant hold a job and she gets sick of supporting him. Just a phase...thats also why you see gorgeous women with gumpy dudes you never wouldve guessed. A mental security factor, and usually money.

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superemokid07
its stupid still girls need to learn that nice guys are so much better
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Not all the time.
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superemokid07
yes nice guys are
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@jen, wait till your about 26, then we will see if u can still say that.
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But that gets a litle old. Bad boys are always in trouble so you never know what they will do next. It's awsome!
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All im gettin at is in their mid 20s and beyond it leads to bigger problems like jail time, felonies, parole,probation, money and time lost, prison record interfering with employment. Ive known many, its not a lifestyle you want, trust me.
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Perhaps Jen, you should re-examine your own self esteem? Low self worth leads to picking these defective dudes. And Wiseguy is right, by your 20's hopefully you'll have grown up and realized it.
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Um no i'm happy just the way i am. I've seen lifes like hat. They are boring and worthless.
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I'm not going to change myself to make someone els happy,
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Thanks ladies, ive worked with all types of these guys since 99 all over the states and its a downward spiral lifestyle for these boys, some learn and correct it at an early age, some enjoy it too much to do that.
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Agree with wise, it should be a phase but if you find yourself 40 and still bailing him out and you are paying the bills because he can't, we call it stupidity!
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Wow Jen, how very mature of you.
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Thanks:)
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Uh, Jen, that was sarcasm.
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lol
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because us girls like them 6 packs big muscles.. because they like to make other people jealous there interesting to figure out... u think of it as when your older youll like guys who are more motivated happier ... its just a phase because bad boys attract more than one girl remember that.

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buy bnice guys wont hurt them like bad boys will
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Your pic is fake..... Sorry but i know who took the pic:(
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The other one who stole my friend Allies pic.
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They are searching for someone to take care of. Unless stopped at an early age, (teens) this behavior continues throughout their adult lives resulting in broken hearts, broken failed marriages, spousal abuse, etc.
Bad boys usually turn out to be bad men without professional help. Girls/women are under the false impression that they can help turn this guy around or with their love, the guy will change. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Good guys might be thought of as a bit boring,but the stability, integrity and compassion they possess will be what these women search for their entire life. They're looking in the wrong places with the wrong guys. It's a shame they waste most of their lives fishing from the wrong pond.

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Bingo, great answer.
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Most Girls want a bad boy because they like the feel of rebelling against there parents...n most parents dont want there daughter dating bad guys so its a phase...i had that phase too...until i got hurt..so i agree with her^^^^^^^^

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superemokid07
okay thanks
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wisebuff
Thats what im tryin to tell em!!
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Cuz they are stupid and don't put any thought into their future. Or maybe they want to be treated like crap.

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superemokid07
thats stupid
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why would they want to be treated like crap
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We don't that's why we break up!
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krissy14

it kind of makes you excited to be around them... it's just the feeling you get to feel dangerous

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As usual, women see men as one of their improvement projects.

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Good Girls think they want excitement because bad boys are so different. Good Women want Good Men for all the other reasons.

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Girls want to live the wild life with a bad boy and sew their wild oats so to speak.. Once they had their fun and decide they want to have a family or settle down they will try to find that nice guy.

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Generally speaking, usually the hotter the female is, the more diluted and ignorant. They want what they feel they can not have. Make them feel like they can't possibly have you, and they will naturally want you. Also they are obsessed with wanting to be on the cutting edge of all things new. Bad boys are usually on that cutting edge. But they eventually learn that the badboys are mostly losers, and can't afford to spoil them correctly. Behind every great man is an even greater woman. Yet we are not talking about the great ones.. yet the trash.

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that is sooooo not true!!!!!! im hott nd im not diluted and ignorant!!! nd i dont want a "bad" boy... :/
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Thats why I said generally speaking, rather than a phrase like, "All". I dont sterio type. Glad your awesome too.
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Most of us like the "excitement" but not all girls look for bad boys, just letting you know.

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some girls think theres something sexi about BAD boys...wtf is a bad boy?! what makes him bad?! cuz hes an a hole who wants that?! i want a guy who treats me right nd is good to me all the time...not just when he wants to be...a man can be sweet and loving nd dirty in a sexy way at the same time...u dont have to choose one or the other u can have both..i personally dont like bad little boys...i want a real good MAN! :/

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Awe I think it's pointless to have a bad boy and I'm nice and sweet but girls shut me down
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then ur hittin on the wrong girls hun nd they dont deserve to be with u..ull find someone dont worry nd dont give up!!! :)
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supermokid07, if i was single, i would date you. i like nice guys. they are so funny.
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Your picking on the wrong girls then. Some good girls want excitement in life but that doesn't mean they have to be bad. A lot of girls i know want there boyfriend to show more respect for them and if not they break up. Most girls want a man that can be daring, and i admit i do too. Daring does not always mean bad. And soon those girls dating those bad boys won't want to be dating soon when they go too far.

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No girls at all want me cuz I'm nice and sweet and caring and all girls do that
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agreed!! good answer!! :)
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Bad boys do get girls because girls are hypocrites, they first go for the hot guys. Not the funny or nice guys. Not all but majority don't give two s*** about good guys. Want proof, there are a lot more girls crushing on rockstars than comedians.

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666_Maggots

Some girls are just stupid :)... Ha ha... I#039;m gonna get shot soon... cause no one can take a joke...but I stll said it so BAM!!!!...

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LMFAO!!! i actually agree...hopefully u dont get shoot i would miss ur crazyness!
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If I ever get shot I wanna get shot in the neck... Then I could try to use my head as a b ong...YEEAAAHHH...
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I love badboys. There's something about them that I love. Something actually sexy lol

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um okay but a nice guy can be sexy to
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superemokid07, stop worrying you'll find a girl soon.
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Dude look at it this way I'm as bad as they come and I have no luck with girls, it's not just a nice guy vs. Bad boy thing.
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