My girlfriend is sad about having a hispanic baby. How do I convince her not to worry.
I'm Hispanic and My girlfriend is white. SHe ie sad because she doesn't want to give birth to a hispanic baby. How do i convince her that what she is feeling is stupid and wrong. She loves me deeply and we have been together for 15 months. We're not planning on having kids ... yet.
It wasn't until last night that she told me that she was worried that if we were to have kids, that they wouldn't look white or have blond hair. She has been wanting to tell for a while now. She started crying and also told me that her mom said " I don't want dark grand-children". What her mom said probably triggered her sadness. I wan't to convince her that bi-racial babies are ok and that having an hispanic child is not shameful.