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How can I be less shy? I'm not the most popular kid or most outgoing . I would like to talk to others but I get scared fast.

I don't have a big group of friends. and it sucks at times cause in school I'm not alone but I don't have a wide range of friends I usually have about 2 . I would like to be less shy so I can be able to talk to others. a lot of people have tried talking to me but I get scared and don't have a lot to say. how can I over come being shy?

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Well, your going to have to get out of your comfort zone. You can't find any hobbies or passions unless u burst your bubble. It sorta works like this:
Comfort zone -> Beginner -> Amateur -> Expert
Most people say that being a beginner is, we'll, the beginning.
Well, nope. You can't be a beginner in baseball if you've never heard of it.
Soon you will be very sociable; just talk to people. Also, thinking about popularity is just going to make this scarier. Go talk to the new girl, go say hello, compliment her shoes. If need be, practice keeping a conversation with your pillow.

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Do something that will amaze the school. Magic tricks?

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Well anime, video games and other hobbies do the trick for me. I think you'd get better if you had more inspiration, experience and faith in yourself. You have the personality of a seed... Enough work and you'll be shy no more.

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