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Met a nice guy and he asked me to visit him in Texas

I met this guy wiht friends of mine one week after I separated. I am now divorced for 6 months. When he is in town, we generally go out (no intimacy) and we have been getting along super.

He invited me to spend a few weeks in his house. Problem is I have no money, no job and I couldn't finish my last semester of school (which I am embarassed to tell him so). I am living with a friend. If I go, I don't have a place to return...

I should just go to my country and get stronger a bit.

My emotions are all over..I think I am rushing this...I really I am not the type to adventure out so far and live with a guy. It's all so disorganized..but, I didn't want to miss out on a great guy... thoughts?

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In my opinion, I suggest you stay and finish school. Don't throw everything away just to be with some dude who might not even be around long. If he if truly meant to be with you, then there will be a time in the future that you two can meet again. You can still contact him and stuff, but if visiting him in Texas means throwing your education and your friendship away, I say it isn't worth it. Give it time, maybe you can see him another day

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Do what's right for you. If he's really great guy, you won't miss out. I think you know what is best to do. It's silly to be homeless for a guy.

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Just make sure you are up front about the money part. It might go well for you. Guys like to rescue damsels in distress.

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A little too early to start playing house. Give it some time.

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Hi look you seam that you are all there ! Don't do it stay there and why don't you have a job? Because if you found this guy u will get another one! Finish your school and move on ! Right best luck babe!

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