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Is it wrong to ask a cheating husband not to have female friends that I don't know? I know if he is going to cheat he will find a way

but how do I talk to him about how I feel without him feeling accused and becoming defensive. trust don't rebuild overnight.

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You can't get rid of every woman in world. He can always find a woman without your knowledge. You have to let him be who he is and decide if that is what you want in your life.

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It's not wrong to ask him but the most important thing to realize is your tone of voice.

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You already asked this. I don't think the answers will change, no matter how many people answer.

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It didn't show in my asked q&a that's why I reported it :)
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Weird. The other one's in my answers... That's just really weird.
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I used to do that! Find good advice, and then try to find the advice I wanted to hear. It is called denial.

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You don't need a husband like that.

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Your relationship is over either way. A female will always be in his life, wheter you know about her or not. Either you end it and be a real woman and stand up for yourself, or you'll drive yourself crazy thinking about what he's doing behind your back.

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kazarina

This problem doesn't have to be in your life. You can set him free to treat another as he has you. He is who he is & you just happen to be his security while the rest are his pieces of fluff. Decide if that is a good enough future for you & act on your discision. It may sound harsh but life is full of harsh realities along with the odd sweet one.

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Not wrong at all if you stayed with him he has to put effort into things and do what you say till you can trust him again

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angelwolf

If you cannot trust him then divorce him and save both you the heartache and headache.

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