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Many people are going to say no. The truth of the matter is attraction does matter it's what draws us in its nature . Just think of any situation where a guy/girl wants a someone and they don't find attractive whatsoever he/she won't get the person they are going for so there has to be some attraction not "hotness." Here's the thing beauty is in the eye of the beholder there isn't really a set model as to what beautiful/hot is because it's a matter of perception . You may think well this model is attractive to millions that may be the case , but they aren't attractive to everyone . There is someone out there for everyone . Personality and confidence will get you much farther than a face . Looks fade , but a good heart and mind don't . The best advice I could give you is be the best person you can be. In the end you will find someone that is right for you .
Look most girls do judge on hotness. But you don't need to stress over. You shouldn't wake up in the morning just to know if a girl thinks your hot or not. Not everyone is going to like you, it's just life, mate. But if there is that someone you wanna impress just be yourself, and you'll just connect. You don't go to life. It goes to you. It takes time just to come and that perfect moment, to let you know that it's true
It depends on the girl. Honestly I don't do anything fancy to myself but I have had somebody flirt with me once. I didn't even get the hint at all and it ended up really weird but nevermind. It's also about personality and interests. Sometimes people can be spoiled brats and they end up with a broken heart but its their choice. So just try to be yourself and it will eventually work out.
I'm going to be honest here. "Hotness" does matter to me. I'm into guys with piercings, tattoos, muscles, snapbacks and a "bad boy" edge to them. That is my personal preference. "Hotness" matters to almost everyone - girls and guys. People will say personality is the first thing they care about ... That is not always true. I go for looks and then I go for personality. If he is really "hot", but he is an asshole, then I won't develop a relationship with the guy. If he is "hot" and his personality is my "type", then I will consider developing a stronger relationship. Just like guys don't like "fat" or "beat" girls, girls don't like "fat" or "beat" guys. Can't blame us ... blame the "sad" world we live in.
Not hotness but looks. You don't have to be hot... You can have a nice personality and be ugly and you'd more attractive than a hot guy with a crappy personality. You can be cute too. Idk it matters to some girls but not all.
depends on the girl... my best friend says that I am "hot, adorable, cute" and many more compliments... but it seems that everybody else thinks that i look like a truck... I guess it all depends on the girl