You be the punk that you are and someone..... SOMEONE as sure as I am that spongebob is awesome that you'll find someone. Someone will eventually see your beauty and will notice you out of the crowd, smile and hold your hand and take you places you've never been before and make you smile as well. Don't worry too much about complying with society and its weird view of what people should be. Normal is boring. Embrace the weirdness.
Be yourself. If they don't notice you for who you are then they aren't worth it. With that being said, try talking people. If I want to be noticed I kind of start being louder and try doing something to be noticed.